"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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2nd_Chance

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When just walking up to a random girl, and making it clear that you want to go out with her?

For example-

Hot chick walking down hallway
I walk up and say "Hey!"
She says "Hi"
I say "I think your cute and was wondering if you would like to go out for lunch sometime" and smile...

I've only tried this once, and I was nervous as hell... but she smiled and said she had a boyfriend, then she apoligized a few times... (she really did have a boyfriend... found out later)

I mean, screw it, you got to be confident as hell to do that...

EDIT: The reason I ask is because I am sorta considering doing it again... but idk...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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gimmeyofonenumba

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I dunno man that sounds scary, maybe you shouldnt do that.








.....Ya do it again, I gurantee do it at least 10 times in 1 week and I guarantee you'll wonder why the fvck you were so scared of this in the 1st place. I wouldnt use the lunch thing though, just ask for a phone number fitst. Dont you think it'd seem really creepy if someone went up to you and asked to eat lunch with you on another day?
 

2nd_Chance

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Kinda, but at the same time I wouldn't want a complete stranger to call me either...
 

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What if you just met the most charming stranger in the world though? One of those kind of people that instantly makes your day better by being around them? Someone interesting and different than the rest of the pathetic fools that make up today's world? That's where being a true Don Juan comes in.
 

2nd_Chance

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MooseGod said:
What if you just met the most charming stranger in the world though? One of those kind of people that instantly makes your day better by being around them? Someone interesting and different than the rest of the pathetic fools that make up today's world? That's where being a true Don Juan comes in.

Aye, I guess I am doubting myself. Right now, I am not... IDK... practice makes perfect I guess...

Starting is the hardest part... :-\ I mean, if I did ask ten different girls for their numbers you know that not everyone is going to say yes... but if just ONE does, then I would feel good about it...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Play the Game

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Don't focus on the number first.... focus on making them feel a spark when they talk to you. Once you got that, you can say anything you want.
 
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