Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
dont be foistin beth! I'm watching for you sneaky pro-lifers! LOL
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What's Wrong With Single Mothers?
- Thread starter RockaRolla25
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
dont be foistin beth! I'm watching for you sneaky pro-lifers! LOL
why bash guys who chose not to date single mothers? it's their right who they chose to date isn't it? every single mother i've tried to date always ended up screwing me over, lesson learned, don't date them anymore. now i stick to girls who either don't want kids or don't have kids and it makes life alot easier for me. it's all personal choice.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
This is a topic that' won't go away, I've already giving my opinion on this countless times
I have tried dating single mothers and out of the hundreds that I've met probably only a handful were LTR material the thing is a lot of single mothers.
Heres my thing, if she has time, something that 99.9% of them don't have. Intrigues me, and meets my list then i might date one seriously, but I'm not holding my breath!
I have tried dating single mothers and out of the hundreds that I've met probably only a handful were LTR material the thing is a lot of single mothers.
Heres my thing, if she has time, something that 99.9% of them don't have. Intrigues me, and meets my list then i might date one seriously, but I'm not holding my breath!
Poonani Maker
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The single mother where the Father has custody, because she lost that battle because of her notorious track-record (jail-time/drugs), That's the kind of single mom that always has time for you, the one who has to Visit her kids. It's rare but she's there somewhere in your town, and she may be hot.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
OH he11, just marry her then and tell us how it is in 15 years. Pay for another mans kid thru college etc. But when the kid is screwing with your life and YOU try to discipline "it" you will hear "IT'S not YOUR kid, you don't have a say"
jafyk
Master Don Juan
Ok, to the OP I think you should look at this thread it might help answer some of the question you had in mind when starting this thread and then see my comment in this thread as well http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=180715
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Desdinova
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The positives: SM's are generally quite mature. They know how to cook, clean, take care of finances, and deal with stress.
The negatives: Their kid(s) gets first choice when it comes to time and attention. If the dad fvcked off and they have the kid(s) full time, that leaves nearly no time for you. If the dad gets time with the kids, that gives you a bit more time with her, but you'll have to listen to how much of an a55hole the dad is.
The negatives: Their kid(s) gets first choice when it comes to time and attention. If the dad fvcked off and they have the kid(s) full time, that leaves nearly no time for you. If the dad gets time with the kids, that gives you a bit more time with her, but you'll have to listen to how much of an a55hole the dad is.
Im a strong believer of taking all the territory for myself.
I would rather get a new SLK mercedes than a second hand Lamborghini whos engine have problems because of the previous owner.
I don't want to have in my home or life extra subjects like a father who comes to pick the kid in the week end and force me to review my schedule or create even more drama for the woman.
In my home the only man who has a word or space its me.
It's not that much the kid, it's more the fact that my control over my goddamn life and home would be sensibly decreased, if I wanted to be told what to do or share my place with others and negotiate I would have remained in the army.
I also would have problem and would feel a coward to scream to an other guy to which I have no connection and whos too young, while with a son
Im supposed to do so if he does anything wrong.
It's not a moral question it's simply a territorial and instinctual one.
I would rather get a new SLK mercedes than a second hand Lamborghini whos engine have problems because of the previous owner.
I don't want to have in my home or life extra subjects like a father who comes to pick the kid in the week end and force me to review my schedule or create even more drama for the woman.
In my home the only man who has a word or space its me.
It's not that much the kid, it's more the fact that my control over my goddamn life and home would be sensibly decreased, if I wanted to be told what to do or share my place with others and negotiate I would have remained in the army.
I also would have problem and would feel a coward to scream to an other guy to which I have no connection and whos too young, while with a son
Im supposed to do so if he does anything wrong.
It's not a moral question it's simply a territorial and instinctual one.
5string
Master Don Juan
Someone Much cooler
Senior Don Juan
I'll be back to post...beatin a dead horse is fun...no surprises
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Poonani Maker said:
You forgot to add she will probably bat**** crazy which is why she doesn't have her kid in the first place. Just got through dating one of those. Apparently she decided to get off her meds that I didn't know that she was on, decided to get drunk, and decided started yelling at the screen in the middle of film festival. Then she threatened to punch out a 60 something year old man who had the nerve to ask her to be quiet while I was away in the bathroom. Imagine coming back to that scene after a piss. On the upside she was hot and pretty much into everything in bed. But that was the last straw hot sex wasn't worth public disasters.
It brings their market value down, which they offset by being hotter and easier, so you often end up with hotter women with more baggage.
Once you hit your mid 30's it's hard to find women who have no kids and who are attractive.
But if you're under 25 forget them.
Once you hit your mid 30's it's hard to find women who have no kids and who are attractive.
But if you're under 25 forget them.
SgtSplacker
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Single moms are cool if they understand that you are making a sacrifice to be with them. And because of this they try to cater to you a bit more. It's only fair. I have met some single moms that celebrate making you second maybe fourth fiddle in their lives. Fine I understand your kid is important to you, but the only thing you are really gaining from the relationship is the bang. While she stands to not only satisfy her libido but financial gains as well. I dated a chick that would get mad if I spent less that like $80 taking her out because she would have to shell out $60 for a babysitter whenever we went out. So I could only call her for expensive nights out or nothing because I wasnt ready to meet her kid yet. She was hot, I took her out twice and lost interest and a lil cash in the process. Theres states where you can be made responsible for child support just because you were there for most of the childs upbringing whether the child was genetically yours or not, also common law marriages. After all nothing is stopping you from just going out and getting some tighter poon that doesnt have so many obligations. There is no benefit to dating a single mother for a single man, on the contrary there are only drawbacks.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.