John Constantine
Don Juan
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I can relate so much to that
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What's wrong with Mr. Nice Guy?
- Thread starter bario
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
So your jerk sauce isn't getting you laid?
I can tell by the way you post that you are a nice guy...I am an absolute assh0LE and get laid regular..I can tell the difference...
Mike32ct
Master Don Juan
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Gonna go against the grain here.
Most (not all) nice guys aren't the evil people they are made out to be. Some might be naive or too bluepill in how they view relationships, but that's no crime.
There's nothing wrong with being nice. If she rejects a guy (or friend-zones him) and call him a "nice guy," in that context, she simply doesn't find him good looking.
His personality is good enough to be her friend, and she may even WANT to be his friend, but for dating, she suddenly finds his "personality" flawed lol. It just sounds SO very, very disingenuous. So I think it's more of a looks issue than women let on.
Most (not all) nice guys aren't the evil people they are made out to be. Some might be naive or too bluepill in how they view relationships, but that's no crime.
There's nothing wrong with being nice. If she rejects a guy (or friend-zones him) and call him a "nice guy," in that context, she simply doesn't find him good looking.
His personality is good enough to be her friend, and she may even WANT to be his friend, but for dating, she suddenly finds his "personality" flawed lol. It just sounds SO very, very disingenuous. So I think it's more of a looks issue than women let on.