John Constantine
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I can relate so much to that
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What's wrong with Mr. Nice Guy?
- Thread starter bario
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
So your jerk sauce isn't getting you laid?
I can tell by the way you post that you are a nice guy...I am an absolute assh0LE and get laid regular..I can tell the difference...
Mike32ct
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Gonna go against the grain here.
Most (not all) nice guys aren't the evil people they are made out to be. Some might be naive or too bluepill in how they view relationships, but that's no crime.
There's nothing wrong with being nice. If she rejects a guy (or friend-zones him) and call him a "nice guy," in that context, she simply doesn't find him good looking.
His personality is good enough to be her friend, and she may even WANT to be his friend, but for dating, she suddenly finds his "personality" flawed lol. It just sounds SO very, very disingenuous. So I think it's more of a looks issue than women let on.
Most (not all) nice guys aren't the evil people they are made out to be. Some might be naive or too bluepill in how they view relationships, but that's no crime.
There's nothing wrong with being nice. If she rejects a guy (or friend-zones him) and call him a "nice guy," in that context, she simply doesn't find him good looking.
His personality is good enough to be her friend, and she may even WANT to be his friend, but for dating, she suddenly finds his "personality" flawed lol. It just sounds SO very, very disingenuous. So I think it's more of a looks issue than women let on.