John Constantine
Don Juan
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I can relate so much to that
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What's wrong with Mr. Nice Guy?
- Thread starter bario
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
So your jerk sauce isn't getting you laid?
I can tell by the way you post that you are a nice guy...I am an absolute assh0LE and get laid regular..I can tell the difference...
Mike32ct
Master Don Juan
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Gonna go against the grain here.
Most (not all) nice guys aren't the evil people they are made out to be. Some might be naive or too bluepill in how they view relationships, but that's no crime.
There's nothing wrong with being nice. If she rejects a guy (or friend-zones him) and call him a "nice guy," in that context, she simply doesn't find him good looking.
His personality is good enough to be her friend, and she may even WANT to be his friend, but for dating, she suddenly finds his "personality" flawed lol. It just sounds SO very, very disingenuous. So I think it's more of a looks issue than women let on.
Most (not all) nice guys aren't the evil people they are made out to be. Some might be naive or too bluepill in how they view relationships, but that's no crime.
There's nothing wrong with being nice. If she rejects a guy (or friend-zones him) and call him a "nice guy," in that context, she simply doesn't find him good looking.
His personality is good enough to be her friend, and she may even WANT to be his friend, but for dating, she suddenly finds his "personality" flawed lol. It just sounds SO very, very disingenuous. So I think it's more of a looks issue than women let on.