John Constantine
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I can relate so much to that
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What's wrong with Mr. Nice Guy?
- Thread starter bario
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
So your jerk sauce isn't getting you laid?
I can tell by the way you post that you are a nice guy...I am an absolute assh0LE and get laid regular..I can tell the difference...
Mike32ct
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Gonna go against the grain here.
Most (not all) nice guys aren't the evil people they are made out to be. Some might be naive or too bluepill in how they view relationships, but that's no crime.
There's nothing wrong with being nice. If she rejects a guy (or friend-zones him) and call him a "nice guy," in that context, she simply doesn't find him good looking.
His personality is good enough to be her friend, and she may even WANT to be his friend, but for dating, she suddenly finds his "personality" flawed lol. It just sounds SO very, very disingenuous. So I think it's more of a looks issue than women let on.
Most (not all) nice guys aren't the evil people they are made out to be. Some might be naive or too bluepill in how they view relationships, but that's no crime.
There's nothing wrong with being nice. If she rejects a guy (or friend-zones him) and call him a "nice guy," in that context, she simply doesn't find him good looking.
His personality is good enough to be her friend, and she may even WANT to be his friend, but for dating, she suddenly finds his "personality" flawed lol. It just sounds SO very, very disingenuous. So I think it's more of a looks issue than women let on.