"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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whats with this?

JesterX

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ok a chic was into me awhile ago i diddnt respond cause i wasnt physically or mentally attracted to her. she kept asking me out to do stuff and i always rejected. so now she has found a boyfriend which is great for her and me as she wont be bothering me as much. but everytime i talk to her or she messages me and i mesege her back she some how finds a way of mentioning him. do you think she is trying to make me jealous? if she is than it aint gonna work because im not attracted to her in any way possible. was just curious about it and trying to learn abit more about how the female species thinks.

im sure someones had something similiar happen what happened in your situation?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Reagan

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The fact that your posting about it shows that you're concerned. You're most likely an attention *****.
 

Apollo_Jordan

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who cares what she is thinking- so since you posted about it I guess maybe you are feeling some subconscious attraction or something to her now that her value has risen due to her getting a bf.
 

Bill

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Almost every guy had that happen to him, I believe.

The girl's fishing for a reaction from you, and she still somehow values your opinion. If and when you react, as in "Why do you keep talking about him all the time?" you're done, because she'll run the old "What, are you jealous? you had your chance blablablah" routine.

Ignore those comments of hers, and try to be genuinely happy for her -- which you seem to be anyways. Long as you don't play her little game you're fine.

Sounds to me like nothing more than an attention *****. Sad.

-Bill
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Boner da Stoner

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lol I've been a **** and invited girls to chill for coffe with their new boyfriends, and they were total ****s, and the girls would start to ****ing freak about me, they'd have their backs turned to the guys and wouldn barely listen to or respond to what they said. I'd feel bad for the guy and start trying to chat him up, suddenly the girl would switch all up onto him, saying she loves him and slathering him with attention...

that's when I stand up and leave...

She'd find me somehow a few days later and start bugging me about how I was jealous of her:crackup: boyfriend


Since I've found it better to use the girls to my advantage and find out who their friends are and chill with them than... it's the only form of amoging I know where I am prequalified as the better of the men, since I knew the girl had chosen me over him.
 
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