"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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whats with this?

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ok a chic was into me awhile ago i diddnt respond cause i wasnt physically or mentally attracted to her. she kept asking me out to do stuff and i always rejected. so now she has found a boyfriend which is great for her and me as she wont be bothering me as much. but everytime i talk to her or she messages me and i mesege her back she some how finds a way of mentioning him. do you think she is trying to make me jealous? if she is than it aint gonna work because im not attracted to her in any way possible. was just curious about it and trying to learn abit more about how the female species thinks.

im sure someones had something similiar happen what happened in your situation?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The fact that your posting about it shows that you're concerned. You're most likely an attention *****.
 
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who cares what she is thinking- so since you posted about it I guess maybe you are feeling some subconscious attraction or something to her now that her value has risen due to her getting a bf.
 
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Almost every guy had that happen to him, I believe.

The girl's fishing for a reaction from you, and she still somehow values your opinion. If and when you react, as in "Why do you keep talking about him all the time?" you're done, because she'll run the old "What, are you jealous? you had your chance blablablah" routine.

Ignore those comments of hers, and try to be genuinely happy for her -- which you seem to be anyways. Long as you don't play her little game you're fine.

Sounds to me like nothing more than an attention *****. Sad.

-Bill
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lol I've been a **** and invited girls to chill for coffe with their new boyfriends, and they were total ****s, and the girls would start to ****ing freak about me, they'd have their backs turned to the guys and wouldn barely listen to or respond to what they said. I'd feel bad for the guy and start trying to chat him up, suddenly the girl would switch all up onto him, saying she loves him and slathering him with attention...

that's when I stand up and leave...

She'd find me somehow a few days later and start bugging me about how I was jealous of her:crackup: boyfriend


Since I've found it better to use the girls to my advantage and find out who their friends are and chill with them than... it's the only form of amoging I know where I am prequalified as the better of the men, since I knew the girl had chosen me over him.
 
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