"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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whats with the slowness?

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I hate complaining but...

What is with the slowness? I have DSL and my pages for this site takes close to a minute to load. This is a travesty.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Read the "Change ISPs" thread, where it's being complained about...

Wish someone would take care of it, though - a call to the ISP might get their attention on things.
 

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better
 

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Originally posted by birty
I was scolded with a *sigh* in the main forum for bringing this up, but I did so only because there was no moderator response to this thread here.

So, I'll ask the same question here that I asked there: what's up with the board slowness? Any moderator care to comment on what's being done to improve the situation?

birty
We (well, Paradox mainly) has talked to Allen about this problem. Of course, we only know what's going on when Allen tells us...Which he hasn't yet. Though the site seems a little better today.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I've noticed the problem, of course. This seems to come up every couple months, sometimes running fine and sometimes running very slowly. Hopefully, we will have the problem taken care of shortly. Again.
 

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I've noticed that the fourm has been going a lot more faster. Thanks for fixing the problem, and hopefully, it lasts.
 

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MUHAHAHAHAHA...*snicker*

everything is goin just as planned... As soon as all memebers move to globalmarketing.nu I and I ALONE SHALL CONTROL THE SOSUAVE.COM bandwith.... *snickers* Muhaha...HAHAHA.....moo....hahah.... knock knock whos' there
Interupting cow....
oh Hi...
DAmit!
 

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Why didn't anyone mention the other server in the first place!?!? Is it because I'm mexican american?!?!?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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