"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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whats with the slowness?

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I hate complaining but...

What is with the slowness? I have DSL and my pages for this site takes close to a minute to load. This is a travesty.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Read the "Change ISPs" thread, where it's being complained about...

Wish someone would take care of it, though - a call to the ISP might get their attention on things.
 

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better
 

Eternal

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Originally posted by birty
I was scolded with a *sigh* in the main forum for bringing this up, but I did so only because there was no moderator response to this thread here.

So, I'll ask the same question here that I asked there: what's up with the board slowness? Any moderator care to comment on what's being done to improve the situation?

birty
We (well, Paradox mainly) has talked to Allen about this problem. Of course, we only know what's going on when Allen tells us...Which he hasn't yet. Though the site seems a little better today.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I've noticed the problem, of course. This seems to come up every couple months, sometimes running fine and sometimes running very slowly. Hopefully, we will have the problem taken care of shortly. Again.
 

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I've noticed that the fourm has been going a lot more faster. Thanks for fixing the problem, and hopefully, it lasts.
 

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MUHAHAHAHAHA...*snicker*

everything is goin just as planned... As soon as all memebers move to globalmarketing.nu I and I ALONE SHALL CONTROL THE SOSUAVE.COM bandwith.... *snickers* Muhaha...HAHAHA.....moo....hahah.... knock knock whos' there
Interupting cow....
oh Hi...
DAmit!
 

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Why didn't anyone mention the other server in the first place!?!? Is it because I'm mexican american?!?!?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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