"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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whats with the slowness?

comic_relief

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I hate complaining but...

What is with the slowness? I have DSL and my pages for this site takes close to a minute to load. This is a travesty.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Read the "Change ISPs" thread, where it's being complained about...

Wish someone would take care of it, though - a call to the ISP might get their attention on things.
 

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better
 

Eternal

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Originally posted by birty
I was scolded with a *sigh* in the main forum for bringing this up, but I did so only because there was no moderator response to this thread here.

So, I'll ask the same question here that I asked there: what's up with the board slowness? Any moderator care to comment on what's being done to improve the situation?

birty
We (well, Paradox mainly) has talked to Allen about this problem. Of course, we only know what's going on when Allen tells us...Which he hasn't yet. Though the site seems a little better today.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I've noticed the problem, of course. This seems to come up every couple months, sometimes running fine and sometimes running very slowly. Hopefully, we will have the problem taken care of shortly. Again.
 

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I've noticed that the fourm has been going a lot more faster. Thanks for fixing the problem, and hopefully, it lasts.
 

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MUHAHAHAHAHA...*snicker*

everything is goin just as planned... As soon as all memebers move to globalmarketing.nu I and I ALONE SHALL CONTROL THE SOSUAVE.COM bandwith.... *snickers* Muhaha...HAHAHA.....moo....hahah.... knock knock whos' there
Interupting cow....
oh Hi...
DAmit!
 

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Why didn't anyone mention the other server in the first place!?!? Is it because I'm mexican american?!?!?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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