LonesomeLoser
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Why is it that a woman can inhale a 16" pizza by herself every night and be called a Big Beautiful Woman, but if a guy does that, he's a fat slob with no self-respect?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What's with the double standard concerning weight?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Warboss Alex
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or he might be trying to get into the 308s. so might she, for that matter.LonesomeLoser said:
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What I mean is, there are men who specifically like fat women (BBWs as they call them...I call those guys chubby chasers, myself). But you don't hear about any women who specifically like fat guys. Not good looking women anyway. But I would assume there's all kinds of guys into BBW's, fat guys thin guys and everywhere in between. But if there's any women who like obese guys like myself, chances are she's nothing to look at herself.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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The question was......
The reply was......
aifia said:
The reply was......
No way.... It can't possibly be that obvious!LonesomeLoser said:
What you got to realize is that lot of these guys who are into fatties and chubbies (i.e. chubby chasers) are compensating for their lack of being able to seduce thinner, hotter women. They are striking out with thin HB7+ so they chase after fat HB5- because they know that they won't get rejected by the chubbies (because the chubby girls don't have that many options either).
There is nothing magical or no standard about calling fat girls beautiful. If you see a fat girl, call her a fattie...if you want. If a fat girl asks your opinion on a dress being too big or if she looks too big, then tell her the truth! What is she going to do to you for telling her the truth? Insult you and call you a fattie? Well boohoo...
And if you are obese yourself, are you doing anything about it? Or are you sitting at home and blaming everybody else for your physical shape? :nono:
Not to sound like a broken record, but hit the gym and healthy meals dude.
There is nothing magical or no standard about calling fat girls beautiful. If you see a fat girl, call her a fattie...if you want. If a fat girl asks your opinion on a dress being too big or if she looks too big, then tell her the truth! What is she going to do to you for telling her the truth? Insult you and call you a fattie? Well boohoo...
And if you are obese yourself, are you doing anything about it? Or are you sitting at home and blaming everybody else for your physical shape? :nono:
Not to sound like a broken record, but hit the gym and healthy meals dude.
The standard depends on where you live. In the USA it's HORRIBLE.
By being obese, people automatically find you less valuable. They think that "oh if only he'd stop eating he'd lose weight."
Telling a fat guy to stop eating is basically the same as telling a guy to stop ****ing his girl right in the middle of it happening. Are you going to get a positive result? Probably not.
It has to do with the culture and belief system the people have. If you ask a large chunk of people, the major consensus will be that fat people have a choice as to whether or not they lose weight. Problem is it's a HELL of alot more complicated than that!
PM me if you want more info, i studied this subject hardcore back in uni, hell i even still have my old hardcopy final essay
but just to be a ****. Here.
http://www.bbwromance.com/?s=free_db_search&aff_id=google&aff_pg=2&tag=bbw_guys
By being obese, people automatically find you less valuable. They think that "oh if only he'd stop eating he'd lose weight."
Telling a fat guy to stop eating is basically the same as telling a guy to stop ****ing his girl right in the middle of it happening. Are you going to get a positive result? Probably not.
It has to do with the culture and belief system the people have. If you ask a large chunk of people, the major consensus will be that fat people have a choice as to whether or not they lose weight. Problem is it's a HELL of alot more complicated than that!
PM me if you want more info, i studied this subject hardcore back in uni, hell i even still have my old hardcopy final essay
but just to be a ****. Here.
http://www.bbwromance.com/?s=free_db_search&aff_id=google&aff_pg=2&tag=bbw_guys
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
fat women get it the worst...
if you have one fat friend at a club, nobody cares that he's fat as long as he's fun. girls will still chill with him etc.
but when you see a fat girl in a club, she's only surrounded by other girls. no guys want to talk to her, or even be seen with her. guys walk past and murmur "man why is that fat girl here?"
if you have one fat friend at a club, nobody cares that he's fat as long as he's fun. girls will still chill with him etc.
but when you see a fat girl in a club, she's only surrounded by other girls. no guys want to talk to her, or even be seen with her. guys walk past and murmur "man why is that fat girl here?"
chinwaggler
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are you saying if you see a fat woman.. you think.. wow she's big and beautiful...
because when i see one. i think.. there's the gym.
it's even worse when they're eating whilst walking.. eugh
because when i see one. i think.. there's the gym.
it's even worse when they're eating whilst walking.. eugh
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Cause those who poses vaginas now poses the most power in western society.. Basically having a vagina trumps most other negative attribute in a female.. which is why there are more males attempting gender reasignment surgery, and dabbling in gayness and bisexuality than ever before..LonesomeLoser said:
Also the feminist movement vows to leave no woman behind... NO matter how bad her situation every woman is a potential soldier to help fight the power.. YOu as a lowelly man must now accept a woman anyway she is..
chinwaggler
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what is don gordon on about
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Paintballguy
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bingo.... It is sickening how fat, disgusting women can get laid. It just shows you how many AFC pussies are out there. These guys get so desperate and drop their standards. Then, you have all these big, fat, ugly women who think they are the **** because they get guys. It is really a ****ed up situation.DonGorgon said: