What's with the double standard concerning weight?

[LonesomeLoser]

Why is it that a woman can inhale a 16" pizza by herself every night and be called a Big Beautiful Woman, but if a guy does that, he's a fat slob with no self-respect?

 

[azanon]

Who told you that's a standard? It's common knowledge women are held more accountable for their weight than men. Seriously, I'd like to know why you thought it was the other way around.

 

[Warboss Alex]

but if a guy does that, he's a fat slob with no self-respect?

or he might be trying to get into the 308s. so might she, for that matter.

 

[LonesomeLoser]

What I mean is, there are men who specifically like fat women (BBWs as they call them...I call those guys chubby chasers, myself). But you don't hear about any women who specifically like fat guys. Not good looking women anyway. But I would assume there's all kinds of guys into BBW's, fat guys thin guys and everywhere in between. But if there's any women who like obese guys like myself, chances are she's nothing to look at herself.

 

[aifia]

i have no clue what you're talking about.. are you fat?

 

[OTB]

The question was......

i have no clue what you're talking about.. are you fat?

The reply was......

But if there's any women who like obese guys like myself, chances are she's nothing to look at herself.

No way.... It can't possibly be that obvious!

 

[The Bat]

What you got to realize is that lot of these guys who are into fatties and chubbies (i.e. chubby chasers) are compensating for their lack of being able to seduce thinner, hotter women. They are striking out with thin HB7+ so they chase after fat HB5- because they know that they won't get rejected by the chubbies (because the chubby girls don't have that many options either).

There is nothing magical or no standard about calling fat girls beautiful. If you see a fat girl, call her a fattie...if you want. If a fat girl asks your opinion on a dress being too big or if she looks too big, then tell her the truth! What is she going to do to you for telling her the truth? Insult you and call you a fattie? Well boohoo...

And if you are obese yourself, are you doing anything about it? Or are you sitting at home and blaming everybody else for your physical shape? :nono:

Not to sound like a broken record, but hit the gym and healthy meals dude.

 

[FairShake]

Some fat chicks are hot!

And some women like "big" guys. Helps if you're tall. And if they're fat.

That's pretty much it though.

 

[pua1989]

uhhhhhhhhh what u are saying just dumb. rarely guys like super fat girls. i see more often chubbier guys with HOT B I T CH E S than i do with fat girls with good lookin guys.

 

[Aragon034]

The standard depends on where you live. In the USA it's HORRIBLE.

By being obese, people automatically find you less valuable. They think that "oh if only he'd stop eating he'd lose weight."

Telling a fat guy to stop eating is basically the same as telling a guy to stop ****ing his girl right in the middle of it happening. Are you going to get a positive result? Probably not.

It has to do with the culture and belief system the people have. If you ask a large chunk of people, the major consensus will be that fat people have a choice as to whether or not they lose weight. Problem is it's a HELL of alot more complicated than that!

PM me if you want more info, i studied this subject hardcore back in uni, hell i even still have my old hardcopy final essay

but just to be a ****. Here.

http://www.bbwromance.com/?s=free_db_search&aff_id=google&aff_pg=2&tag=bbw_guys

 

[DJVladdy]

Aragon, with all due respect,

before writing odes to ElStud or anybody else,

read again what you just wrote. You have issues of your own BIG TIME.

 

[The Kidd]

fat women get it the worst...

if you have one fat friend at a club, nobody cares that he's fat as long as he's fun. girls will still chill with him etc.

but when you see a fat girl in a club, she's only surrounded by other girls. no guys want to talk to her, or even be seen with her. guys walk past and murmur "man why is that fat girl here?"

 

[chinwaggler]

are you saying if you see a fat woman.. you think.. wow she's big and beautiful...

because when i see one. i think.. there's the gym.

it's even worse when they're eating whilst walking.. eugh

 

[DonGorgon]

Why is it that a woman can inhale a 16" pizza by herself every night and be called a Big Beautiful Woman, but if a guy does that, he's a fat slob with no self-respect?

Cause those who poses vaginas now poses the most power in western society.. Basically having a vagina trumps most other negative attribute in a female.. which is why there are more males attempting gender reasignment surgery, and dabbling in gayness and bisexuality than ever before..

Also the feminist movement vows to leave no woman behind... NO matter how bad her situation every woman is a potential soldier to help fight the power.. YOu as a lowelly man must now accept a woman anyway she is..

 

[chinwaggler]

what is don gordon on about

 

[Lexington]

A fat girl can call herself a "big beautiful woman" if she wants, but to most people, she will be an ugly fat chick.

 

[Paintballguy]

Cause those who poses vaginas now poses the most power in western society.. Basically having a vagina trumps most other negative attribute in a female.. which is why there are more males attempting gender reasignment surgery, and dabbling in gayness and bisexuality than ever before..

Also the feminist movement vows to leave no woman behind... NO matter how bad her situation every woman is a potential soldier to help fight the power.. YOu as a lowelly man must now accept a woman anyway she is..

bingo.... It is sickening how fat, disgusting women can get laid. It just shows you how many AFC pussies are out there. These guys get so desperate and drop their standards. Then, you have all these big, fat, ugly women who think they are the **** because they get guys. It is really a ****ed up situation.