LonesomeLoser
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Why is it that a woman can inhale a 16" pizza by herself every night and be called a Big Beautiful Woman, but if a guy does that, he's a fat slob with no self-respect?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What's with the double standard concerning weight?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Warboss Alex
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or he might be trying to get into the 308s. so might she, for that matter.LonesomeLoser said:
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What I mean is, there are men who specifically like fat women (BBWs as they call them...I call those guys chubby chasers, myself). But you don't hear about any women who specifically like fat guys. Not good looking women anyway. But I would assume there's all kinds of guys into BBW's, fat guys thin guys and everywhere in between. But if there's any women who like obese guys like myself, chances are she's nothing to look at herself.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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The question was......
The reply was......
aifia said:
The reply was......
No way.... It can't possibly be that obvious!LonesomeLoser said:
What you got to realize is that lot of these guys who are into fatties and chubbies (i.e. chubby chasers) are compensating for their lack of being able to seduce thinner, hotter women. They are striking out with thin HB7+ so they chase after fat HB5- because they know that they won't get rejected by the chubbies (because the chubby girls don't have that many options either).
There is nothing magical or no standard about calling fat girls beautiful. If you see a fat girl, call her a fattie...if you want. If a fat girl asks your opinion on a dress being too big or if she looks too big, then tell her the truth! What is she going to do to you for telling her the truth? Insult you and call you a fattie? Well boohoo...
And if you are obese yourself, are you doing anything about it? Or are you sitting at home and blaming everybody else for your physical shape? :nono:
Not to sound like a broken record, but hit the gym and healthy meals dude.
There is nothing magical or no standard about calling fat girls beautiful. If you see a fat girl, call her a fattie...if you want. If a fat girl asks your opinion on a dress being too big or if she looks too big, then tell her the truth! What is she going to do to you for telling her the truth? Insult you and call you a fattie? Well boohoo...
And if you are obese yourself, are you doing anything about it? Or are you sitting at home and blaming everybody else for your physical shape? :nono:
Not to sound like a broken record, but hit the gym and healthy meals dude.
The standard depends on where you live. In the USA it's HORRIBLE.
By being obese, people automatically find you less valuable. They think that "oh if only he'd stop eating he'd lose weight."
Telling a fat guy to stop eating is basically the same as telling a guy to stop ****ing his girl right in the middle of it happening. Are you going to get a positive result? Probably not.
It has to do with the culture and belief system the people have. If you ask a large chunk of people, the major consensus will be that fat people have a choice as to whether or not they lose weight. Problem is it's a HELL of alot more complicated than that!
PM me if you want more info, i studied this subject hardcore back in uni, hell i even still have my old hardcopy final essay
but just to be a ****. Here.
http://www.bbwromance.com/?s=free_db_search&aff_id=google&aff_pg=2&tag=bbw_guys
By being obese, people automatically find you less valuable. They think that "oh if only he'd stop eating he'd lose weight."
Telling a fat guy to stop eating is basically the same as telling a guy to stop ****ing his girl right in the middle of it happening. Are you going to get a positive result? Probably not.
It has to do with the culture and belief system the people have. If you ask a large chunk of people, the major consensus will be that fat people have a choice as to whether or not they lose weight. Problem is it's a HELL of alot more complicated than that!
PM me if you want more info, i studied this subject hardcore back in uni, hell i even still have my old hardcopy final essay
but just to be a ****. Here.
http://www.bbwromance.com/?s=free_db_search&aff_id=google&aff_pg=2&tag=bbw_guys
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
fat women get it the worst...
if you have one fat friend at a club, nobody cares that he's fat as long as he's fun. girls will still chill with him etc.
but when you see a fat girl in a club, she's only surrounded by other girls. no guys want to talk to her, or even be seen with her. guys walk past and murmur "man why is that fat girl here?"
if you have one fat friend at a club, nobody cares that he's fat as long as he's fun. girls will still chill with him etc.
but when you see a fat girl in a club, she's only surrounded by other girls. no guys want to talk to her, or even be seen with her. guys walk past and murmur "man why is that fat girl here?"
chinwaggler
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are you saying if you see a fat woman.. you think.. wow she's big and beautiful...
because when i see one. i think.. there's the gym.
it's even worse when they're eating whilst walking.. eugh
because when i see one. i think.. there's the gym.
it's even worse when they're eating whilst walking.. eugh
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Cause those who poses vaginas now poses the most power in western society.. Basically having a vagina trumps most other negative attribute in a female.. which is why there are more males attempting gender reasignment surgery, and dabbling in gayness and bisexuality than ever before..LonesomeLoser said:
Also the feminist movement vows to leave no woman behind... NO matter how bad her situation every woman is a potential soldier to help fight the power.. YOu as a lowelly man must now accept a woman anyway she is..
chinwaggler
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what is don gordon on about
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Paintballguy
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bingo.... It is sickening how fat, disgusting women can get laid. It just shows you how many AFC pussies are out there. These guys get so desperate and drop their standards. Then, you have all these big, fat, ugly women who think they are the **** because they get guys. It is really a ****ed up situation.DonGorgon said: