"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PUA_GUY

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I read some quick tips off this site and a lot of it is made by "women". To be honest coming off a site which has many pioneers and great contributors to the seduction game today this women's advice seemed rather lame!

For eq:
http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/hall100.htm

Leaving messages when you call? Why so the chick never rings you back making you look even more like a tool?

It also stated to compliment women left to right... seriously theres nothing worse than blabbing compliments left to right to every chick that walks by, sure it will work magic on ugly chicks but with the hotties it wont get you far at all infact give away your intetentions, am I missing something or do you guys enjoy sarging ugly chicks?
I learned through practice that complimenting women only when they DO look smashing and you have already slept with her, or compliment something which no one else sees.
http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip16.htm


A good site but whats up with that AFC advice in between?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I totally agree! I've been lurking on these forums for over a year and finally became a member. There has been an influx of female "djs" and female dating advice recently.

This site is for men to come lick their wounds, share their stories, and become strong. The female advice is what got us on the wrong track to begin with!

I mean I appreciate anyone from either gender striving to improve the romantic relationships and understand the underlying power dynamics. However, I don't think women should give men advice, and vice versa. Especially on practical concrete techniques.

One of my best female friends recently came to me with the agony of being in a friend relationship with another friend but she wanted more. I gave her advice and she didn't understand most of it. She's a smart girl too. As I was in the midst of making another attempt, I realized that she would never understand because she's in the female position of the love dance.

Even if she followed my advice, it would not work out for her. For example, one of the things I told her was to kill the friendship in her mind, aim to start the relationship over as a romance, and tell her friend that she wanted to date him. If she did this though, the fact that she had to make the first bold move would always bother her.

Men and women should figure out the dating game seperately unless, of course, they're on dates together. :)
 

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Originally posted by AlwaysExcel
This site is for men to come lick their wounds, share their stories, and become strong. The female advice is what got us on the wrong track to begin with!
How did I leave that out? :)

I will appreciate women's advice when it is the advice made for guys to succeed with women not to make both sides equal even when the chick is giving you the biggest **** test yet!

Further I learned not to see what women say but rather what they do...
 

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Women don't always give bad advice. My mom gave me some good advice about leaving messages "ONLY SETTLE FOR SPEAKING TO HER IN PERSON." I don't have time to leave messages and play phone tag with women.
 

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I stopped reading the rest of the stuff on this ages ago. The forums is where the real gold is at - you'll learn which people know what they're talking about and which people are just blowing hot air.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by PUA_GUY

It also stated to compliment women left to right... seriously theres nothing worse than blabbing compliments left to right to every chick that walks by, sure it will work magic on ugly chicks but with the hotties it wont get you far at all infact give away your intetentions, am I missing something or do you guys enjoy sarging ugly chicks?
I learned through practice that complimenting women only when they DO look smashing and you have already slept with her, or compliment something which no one else sees.
Did you read the bible? Its stated everywhere not to compliment women except on certain ocasions!! U gotta learn to play the ego game. You are just being a chump with those compliments.

Also, complimenting a chick that passes by is not a decent aproach!! Go practice.
 

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Originally posted by Porky
I stopped reading the rest of the stuff on this ages ago. The forums is where the real gold is at - you'll learn which people know what they're talking about and which people are just blowing hot air.
Your only meant to start associating with other seducers online only when you have learned enough knowledge to contribute/help others online. If the online "journal" isnt up to the par then what info will other guys of this site contribute based on this dilemma?

I mean its not a biggie but glad that people are actually aware of it.
 
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