"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What's up with women that flip flop on how they treat you?

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So what's up with women that treat you poorly one minute then treat you good the next. Here's an example. There's one girl I work with that's pretty much a ***** to me (making jokes at my expense, trying to get power over me) but she'll usually all of a sudden start treating me well (complimenting me, defending me, helping me out). The other day she starts out being *****y and ****y, and maybe a half hour later she's defending me and starts rubbing up against me (she was pushing up against me with her body). It's all pretty random and I'm not sure what the **** she's doing (maybe she's just crazy, lol). Thanks for any insight guys (since I've ran into other girls that act the same).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't think this is anything PUA related. Some woman are really great manipulators. Did she happen to ask you for a favor nearly after her change in attitude or do you feel one coming on later? I used to know a girl who was a complete *****, and of course just acted nice to everyone when she wanted something. Because she has such a tough exterior, whenever she happened to actually be nice you actually kind of feel special in a way (they understand this and use this to their advantage). This girl sounds like a nutcase. I would keep your relationship with her completely professional and not give her any more thought than she needs.

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It could be a female variation of push/pull.
But mostly I just think their hormones make them loopy.
 
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I'm not sure what's up with her. I've encountered this with a few girls over the years. This current one just acts really ****y around me, and I'm not sure what instigated this behavior (I do act ****y, but that's just my personality). Was just seeing if anyone else has encountered this, but since not I'll just chock it up to crazy.

EDIT: I forgot to say she wasn't looking for me to do her a favor, I don't like she's ever asked me for a favor before. She was helping me out and being strangely nice to me (which is quite different from her usual *****y, ****y behavior).
 
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i knew a girl like this in hs.

sometimes she would flirt HEAVY with me. other times she would just be plain annoying/insulting.

at the end of hs we ended up hooking up once. we never talked after that when we both went off to college.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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she likes you. I sense it. Next time shes nasty, tell her she needs a hug (then deep kiss her).
 
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Read this four times, and then slap yourself.


WHEN A WOMAN IS INCONSISTENT IN BEHAVIOR WITH A MAN, IT'S BECAUSE SHE HAS OTHER MEN.

That's right. Consistency comes when you are the only one she wants. This chick has so many dudes that she can fuvk with you at will. And she notices what you just wrote. The fact that it bothers you. Your just one of many. Time to stand up and be a man. Time to fire back and treat her like shivt. She will like you, if not, will respect you infront of your colleagues. She has to look at you and say "can't fuvk with that guy, and he looks like a sex machine. That fool is crazy hot". You don't get that in a girls head by being a fuvking CLOWN. Stop being a fuvking CLOWN.
 
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Falcon25 said:
Read this four times, and then slap yourself.


WHEN A WOMAN IS INCONSISTENT IN BEHAVIOR WITH A MAN, IT'S BECAUSE SHE HAS OTHER MEN.

That's right. Consistency comes when you are the only one she wants. This chick has so many dudes that she can fuvk with you at will. And she notices what you just wrote. The fact that it bothers you. Your just one of many. Time to stand up and be a man. Time to fire back and treat her like shivt. She will like you, if not, will respect you infront of your colleagues. She has to look at you and say "can't fuvk with that guy, and he looks like a sex machine. That fool is crazy hot.". You don't get that in a girls head by being a fuvking CLOWN. Stop being a fuvking CLOWN.
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errr, what's with the "fvcking clown" comment? I'm not acting like a clown. And I'm not even pursuing this chick. I have pursued girls that acted like this in the past however, and it confused me back then just like it confuses me now. Only reason I even made a thread about it was it's strange for someone to behave so inconsistantly, and frankly it's getting annoying.
 
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Look pal,

If you want someone to tuck you into bed at night, call your mother. I give it to you hard and without vaseline. The only reason why she is acting like that towards you is because you are being a clown. You have to be a hard core, well oiled, sex machine. She has to look at you and know, "this guy can fuvk my brains out". Right now, you are the clown she messes with. Clean up your act and fire back. God's speed.
 
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Falcon25 said:
Read this four times, and then slap yourself.


WHEN A WOMAN IS INCONSISTENT IN BEHAVIOR WITH A MAN, IT'S BECAUSE SHE HAS OTHER MEN.
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i think he might have hit the nail on the head here. the girl i was tlkaing about in high school definately had other guys
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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Falcon25 said:
Look pal,

If you want someone to tuck you into bed at night, call your mother. I give it to you hard and without vaseline. The only reason why she is acting like that towards you is because you are being a clown. You have to be a hard core, well oiled, sex machine. She has to look at you and know, "this guy can fuvk my brains out". Right now, you are the clown she messes with. Clean up your act and fire back. God's speed.
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im not fully understanding the clown thing either. can you clarify how is he acting like a clown?
 
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Falcon25 said:
WHEN A WOMAN IS INCONSISTENT IN BEHAVIOR WITH A MAN, IT'S BECAUSE SHE HAS OTHER MEN.

Consistency comes when you are the only one she wants. This chick has so many dudes that she can fuvk with you at will.
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Either that or she´s mentally unstable. Well, actually a girl can be mentally unstable AND have many guys.

I think that by clown he means "to let a woman treat you like a doormat".
 
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Blue Phoenix said:
Either that or she´s mentally unstable. Well, actually a girl can be mentally unstable AND have many guys.
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And more often than not, that's often the case.
 
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Blue Phoenix said:
I think that by clown he means "to let a woman treat you like a doormat".
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Yeah, that's probably what he meant. Too bad he's wrong that she's treating me like a doormat. She's just being kinda ****y and ***** (though I may have instigated that by being ****y myself). What I didn't get is her sudden behavioral switch.

And yeah, she probably has a few guys she's banging, what girl doesn't (I don't bat a eye at this anymore, I'm not interested in girls for a relationship).
 
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Falcon25 said:
WHEN A WOMAN IS INCONSISTENT IN BEHAVIOR WITH A MAN, IT'S BECAUSE SHE HAS OTHER MEN.
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How is that even relevant? Of course she has other man, she's a woman. That's like saying that fire is hot.

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Time to fire back and treat her like shivt. She will like you, if not, will respect you infront of your colleagues. She has to look at you and say "can't fuvk with that guy, and he looks like a sex machine. That fool is crazy hot". You don't get that in a girls head by being a fuvking CLOWN. Stop being a fuvking CLOWN.
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So you're just saying to be an ass to her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey Bozo the Clown: Stop being a doormat!

Just kiddin LOL

Actually you said in your 2nd post that you are ****y, so she probably doesnt see you as such a wuss. I still think deep down, theres interest on her part.
 
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