"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What's up with women that flip flop on how they treat you?

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So what's up with women that treat you poorly one minute then treat you good the next. Here's an example. There's one girl I work with that's pretty much a ***** to me (making jokes at my expense, trying to get power over me) but she'll usually all of a sudden start treating me well (complimenting me, defending me, helping me out). The other day she starts out being *****y and ****y, and maybe a half hour later she's defending me and starts rubbing up against me (she was pushing up against me with her body). It's all pretty random and I'm not sure what the **** she's doing (maybe she's just crazy, lol). Thanks for any insight guys (since I've ran into other girls that act the same).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't think this is anything PUA related. Some woman are really great manipulators. Did she happen to ask you for a favor nearly after her change in attitude or do you feel one coming on later? I used to know a girl who was a complete *****, and of course just acted nice to everyone when she wanted something. Because she has such a tough exterior, whenever she happened to actually be nice you actually kind of feel special in a way (they understand this and use this to their advantage). This girl sounds like a nutcase. I would keep your relationship with her completely professional and not give her any more thought than she needs.

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It could be a female variation of push/pull.
But mostly I just think their hormones make them loopy.
 
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I'm not sure what's up with her. I've encountered this with a few girls over the years. This current one just acts really ****y around me, and I'm not sure what instigated this behavior (I do act ****y, but that's just my personality). Was just seeing if anyone else has encountered this, but since not I'll just chock it up to crazy.

EDIT: I forgot to say she wasn't looking for me to do her a favor, I don't like she's ever asked me for a favor before. She was helping me out and being strangely nice to me (which is quite different from her usual *****y, ****y behavior).
 
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i knew a girl like this in hs.

sometimes she would flirt HEAVY with me. other times she would just be plain annoying/insulting.

at the end of hs we ended up hooking up once. we never talked after that when we both went off to college.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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she likes you. I sense it. Next time shes nasty, tell her she needs a hug (then deep kiss her).
 
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Read this four times, and then slap yourself.


WHEN A WOMAN IS INCONSISTENT IN BEHAVIOR WITH A MAN, IT'S BECAUSE SHE HAS OTHER MEN.

That's right. Consistency comes when you are the only one she wants. This chick has so many dudes that she can fuvk with you at will. And she notices what you just wrote. The fact that it bothers you. Your just one of many. Time to stand up and be a man. Time to fire back and treat her like shivt. She will like you, if not, will respect you infront of your colleagues. She has to look at you and say "can't fuvk with that guy, and he looks like a sex machine. That fool is crazy hot". You don't get that in a girls head by being a fuvking CLOWN. Stop being a fuvking CLOWN.
 
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Falcon25 said:
Read this four times, and then slap yourself.


WHEN A WOMAN IS INCONSISTENT IN BEHAVIOR WITH A MAN, IT'S BECAUSE SHE HAS OTHER MEN.

That's right. Consistency comes when you are the only one she wants. This chick has so many dudes that she can fuvk with you at will. And she notices what you just wrote. The fact that it bothers you. Your just one of many. Time to stand up and be a man. Time to fire back and treat her like shivt. She will like you, if not, will respect you infront of your colleagues. She has to look at you and say "can't fuvk with that guy, and he looks like a sex machine. That fool is crazy hot.". You don't get that in a girls head by being a fuvking CLOWN. Stop being a fuvking CLOWN.
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errr, what's with the "fvcking clown" comment? I'm not acting like a clown. And I'm not even pursuing this chick. I have pursued girls that acted like this in the past however, and it confused me back then just like it confuses me now. Only reason I even made a thread about it was it's strange for someone to behave so inconsistantly, and frankly it's getting annoying.
 
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Look pal,

If you want someone to tuck you into bed at night, call your mother. I give it to you hard and without vaseline. The only reason why she is acting like that towards you is because you are being a clown. You have to be a hard core, well oiled, sex machine. She has to look at you and know, "this guy can fuvk my brains out". Right now, you are the clown she messes with. Clean up your act and fire back. God's speed.
 
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Falcon25 said:
Read this four times, and then slap yourself.


WHEN A WOMAN IS INCONSISTENT IN BEHAVIOR WITH A MAN, IT'S BECAUSE SHE HAS OTHER MEN.
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i think he might have hit the nail on the head here. the girl i was tlkaing about in high school definately had other guys
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Falcon25 said:
Look pal,

If you want someone to tuck you into bed at night, call your mother. I give it to you hard and without vaseline. The only reason why she is acting like that towards you is because you are being a clown. You have to be a hard core, well oiled, sex machine. She has to look at you and know, "this guy can fuvk my brains out". Right now, you are the clown she messes with. Clean up your act and fire back. God's speed.
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im not fully understanding the clown thing either. can you clarify how is he acting like a clown?
 
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Falcon25 said:
WHEN A WOMAN IS INCONSISTENT IN BEHAVIOR WITH A MAN, IT'S BECAUSE SHE HAS OTHER MEN.

Consistency comes when you are the only one she wants. This chick has so many dudes that she can fuvk with you at will.
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Either that or she´s mentally unstable. Well, actually a girl can be mentally unstable AND have many guys.

I think that by clown he means "to let a woman treat you like a doormat".
 
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Blue Phoenix said:
Either that or she´s mentally unstable. Well, actually a girl can be mentally unstable AND have many guys.
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And more often than not, that's often the case.
 
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Blue Phoenix said:
I think that by clown he means "to let a woman treat you like a doormat".
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Yeah, that's probably what he meant. Too bad he's wrong that she's treating me like a doormat. She's just being kinda ****y and ***** (though I may have instigated that by being ****y myself). What I didn't get is her sudden behavioral switch.

And yeah, she probably has a few guys she's banging, what girl doesn't (I don't bat a eye at this anymore, I'm not interested in girls for a relationship).
 
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Falcon25 said:
WHEN A WOMAN IS INCONSISTENT IN BEHAVIOR WITH A MAN, IT'S BECAUSE SHE HAS OTHER MEN.
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How is that even relevant? Of course she has other man, she's a woman. That's like saying that fire is hot.

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Time to fire back and treat her like shivt. She will like you, if not, will respect you infront of your colleagues. She has to look at you and say "can't fuvk with that guy, and he looks like a sex machine. That fool is crazy hot". You don't get that in a girls head by being a fuvking CLOWN. Stop being a fuvking CLOWN.
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So you're just saying to be an ass to her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey Bozo the Clown: Stop being a doormat!

Just kiddin LOL

Actually you said in your 2nd post that you are ****y, so she probably doesnt see you as such a wuss. I still think deep down, theres interest on her part.
 
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