"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What's up with women that flip flop on how they treat you?

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So what's up with women that treat you poorly one minute then treat you good the next. Here's an example. There's one girl I work with that's pretty much a ***** to me (making jokes at my expense, trying to get power over me) but she'll usually all of a sudden start treating me well (complimenting me, defending me, helping me out). The other day she starts out being *****y and ****y, and maybe a half hour later she's defending me and starts rubbing up against me (she was pushing up against me with her body). It's all pretty random and I'm not sure what the **** she's doing (maybe she's just crazy, lol). Thanks for any insight guys (since I've ran into other girls that act the same).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't think this is anything PUA related. Some woman are really great manipulators. Did she happen to ask you for a favor nearly after her change in attitude or do you feel one coming on later? I used to know a girl who was a complete *****, and of course just acted nice to everyone when she wanted something. Because she has such a tough exterior, whenever she happened to actually be nice you actually kind of feel special in a way (they understand this and use this to their advantage). This girl sounds like a nutcase. I would keep your relationship with her completely professional and not give her any more thought than she needs.

-Scars
 
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It could be a female variation of push/pull.
But mostly I just think their hormones make them loopy.
 
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I'm not sure what's up with her. I've encountered this with a few girls over the years. This current one just acts really ****y around me, and I'm not sure what instigated this behavior (I do act ****y, but that's just my personality). Was just seeing if anyone else has encountered this, but since not I'll just chock it up to crazy.

EDIT: I forgot to say she wasn't looking for me to do her a favor, I don't like she's ever asked me for a favor before. She was helping me out and being strangely nice to me (which is quite different from her usual *****y, ****y behavior).
 
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i knew a girl like this in hs.

sometimes she would flirt HEAVY with me. other times she would just be plain annoying/insulting.

at the end of hs we ended up hooking up once. we never talked after that when we both went off to college.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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she likes you. I sense it. Next time shes nasty, tell her she needs a hug (then deep kiss her).
 
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Read this four times, and then slap yourself.


WHEN A WOMAN IS INCONSISTENT IN BEHAVIOR WITH A MAN, IT'S BECAUSE SHE HAS OTHER MEN.

That's right. Consistency comes when you are the only one she wants. This chick has so many dudes that she can fuvk with you at will. And she notices what you just wrote. The fact that it bothers you. Your just one of many. Time to stand up and be a man. Time to fire back and treat her like shivt. She will like you, if not, will respect you infront of your colleagues. She has to look at you and say "can't fuvk with that guy, and he looks like a sex machine. That fool is crazy hot". You don't get that in a girls head by being a fuvking CLOWN. Stop being a fuvking CLOWN.
 
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Falcon25 said:
Read this four times, and then slap yourself.


WHEN A WOMAN IS INCONSISTENT IN BEHAVIOR WITH A MAN, IT'S BECAUSE SHE HAS OTHER MEN.

That's right. Consistency comes when you are the only one she wants. This chick has so many dudes that she can fuvk with you at will. And she notices what you just wrote. The fact that it bothers you. Your just one of many. Time to stand up and be a man. Time to fire back and treat her like shivt. She will like you, if not, will respect you infront of your colleagues. She has to look at you and say "can't fuvk with that guy, and he looks like a sex machine. That fool is crazy hot.". You don't get that in a girls head by being a fuvking CLOWN. Stop being a fuvking CLOWN.
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errr, what's with the "fvcking clown" comment? I'm not acting like a clown. And I'm not even pursuing this chick. I have pursued girls that acted like this in the past however, and it confused me back then just like it confuses me now. Only reason I even made a thread about it was it's strange for someone to behave so inconsistantly, and frankly it's getting annoying.
 
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Look pal,

If you want someone to tuck you into bed at night, call your mother. I give it to you hard and without vaseline. The only reason why she is acting like that towards you is because you are being a clown. You have to be a hard core, well oiled, sex machine. She has to look at you and know, "this guy can fuvk my brains out". Right now, you are the clown she messes with. Clean up your act and fire back. God's speed.
 
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Falcon25 said:
Read this four times, and then slap yourself.


WHEN A WOMAN IS INCONSISTENT IN BEHAVIOR WITH A MAN, IT'S BECAUSE SHE HAS OTHER MEN.
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i think he might have hit the nail on the head here. the girl i was tlkaing about in high school definately had other guys
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Falcon25 said:
Look pal,

If you want someone to tuck you into bed at night, call your mother. I give it to you hard and without vaseline. The only reason why she is acting like that towards you is because you are being a clown. You have to be a hard core, well oiled, sex machine. She has to look at you and know, "this guy can fuvk my brains out". Right now, you are the clown she messes with. Clean up your act and fire back. God's speed.
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im not fully understanding the clown thing either. can you clarify how is he acting like a clown?
 
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Falcon25 said:
WHEN A WOMAN IS INCONSISTENT IN BEHAVIOR WITH A MAN, IT'S BECAUSE SHE HAS OTHER MEN.

Consistency comes when you are the only one she wants. This chick has so many dudes that she can fuvk with you at will.
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Either that or she´s mentally unstable. Well, actually a girl can be mentally unstable AND have many guys.

I think that by clown he means "to let a woman treat you like a doormat".
 
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Blue Phoenix said:
Either that or she´s mentally unstable. Well, actually a girl can be mentally unstable AND have many guys.
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And more often than not, that's often the case.
 
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Blue Phoenix said:
I think that by clown he means "to let a woman treat you like a doormat".
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Yeah, that's probably what he meant. Too bad he's wrong that she's treating me like a doormat. She's just being kinda ****y and ***** (though I may have instigated that by being ****y myself). What I didn't get is her sudden behavioral switch.

And yeah, she probably has a few guys she's banging, what girl doesn't (I don't bat a eye at this anymore, I'm not interested in girls for a relationship).
 
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Falcon25 said:
WHEN A WOMAN IS INCONSISTENT IN BEHAVIOR WITH A MAN, IT'S BECAUSE SHE HAS OTHER MEN.
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How is that even relevant? Of course she has other man, she's a woman. That's like saying that fire is hot.

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Time to fire back and treat her like shivt. She will like you, if not, will respect you infront of your colleagues. She has to look at you and say "can't fuvk with that guy, and he looks like a sex machine. That fool is crazy hot". You don't get that in a girls head by being a fuvking CLOWN. Stop being a fuvking CLOWN.
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So you're just saying to be an ass to her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hey Bozo the Clown: Stop being a doormat!

Just kiddin LOL

Actually you said in your 2nd post that you are ****y, so she probably doesnt see you as such a wuss. I still think deep down, theres interest on her part.
 
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