Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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what's up with this? ********?

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The girl says "I dont have anyone to go out for coffee, nobody wants to go with me, they are all busy" is it ******** for ask me out?

But she turned me off when I aked what did she get for her birthday and she says: My male friend is on holiday so nothing,only money from my parents, my friends dont give presents.

I'll go for it none the less, even if she has a BF, I'll fukk her and leave her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by napoleon
The girl says "I dont have anyone to go out for coffee, nobody wants to go with me, they are all busy" is it ******** for ask me out?

Off course she's saying to get her to ask her out. What you need to do is turn up a notch and call her a geek for wanting to go out for coffee. Then you invite her to a brief get-together somewhere in a public place, it can be coffee, but the point is that you're gonna bust her balls and let her know you are much cooler than her or any of her friends.
 

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OK now i need another opinion. I'll ask her out but like this.
As she will pass a difficult exam Ill say-"Now we can go out and celebrate!". What do you think?
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've had the same happen to me; kept saying she had no-one to go to the movies with "i guess i'll just go and be a loner" etc. Being so clueless in identifying hints, i suggested a few other people (just trying to be helpful)... I don't think she even ended up going.

So now you know what not to do.
 

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Originally posted by napoleon
What about the asking out?
Well obviously what I did got me nowhere, so I guess if you want her, go after her and ask her out. I think your suggestion of celebrating would work well.
 

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i don't think you want to ask her out. I mean look at you you guys aren't even messing around and you are already complaning about her whinning habits... what is it that you guys say ??? Uhmm NEXT!!!
 

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Either I dont understand what we are talking about or you dont.
We didn't mention complaining.
What on earth are you talking about?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by napoleon
OK now i need another opinion. I'll ask her out but like this.
As she will pass a difficult exam Ill say-"Now we can go out and celebrate!". What do you think?
"Congratulations, now you get to hang out with me, where are are you gonna take me out so we can celebrate?"

Don't worry too much on what her response will be, as in yes, or now, or maybe. Who cares? This answer will start changing the dynamics in your favor, as in she must pass, be good enough, cool enough in order for you to give her a chance to kick it with you. But you must not screw it up by putting too much importance and resorting to chump behavior.
 

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I like it,any more suggestions(like that one)?
 

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Question-what if she fails. How could I ask her out then?
 
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