"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what's up with this? ********?

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The girl says "I dont have anyone to go out for coffee, nobody wants to go with me, they are all busy" is it ******** for ask me out?

But she turned me off when I aked what did she get for her birthday and she says: My male friend is on holiday so nothing,only money from my parents, my friends dont give presents.

I'll go for it none the less, even if she has a BF, I'll fukk her and leave her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by napoleon
The girl says "I dont have anyone to go out for coffee, nobody wants to go with me, they are all busy" is it ******** for ask me out?
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Off course she's saying to get her to ask her out. What you need to do is turn up a notch and call her a geek for wanting to go out for coffee. Then you invite her to a brief get-together somewhere in a public place, it can be coffee, but the point is that you're gonna bust her balls and let her know you are much cooler than her or any of her friends.
 
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OK now i need another opinion. I'll ask her out but like this.
As she will pass a difficult exam Ill say-"Now we can go out and celebrate!". What do you think?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've had the same happen to me; kept saying she had no-one to go to the movies with "i guess i'll just go and be a loner" etc. Being so clueless in identifying hints, i suggested a few other people (just trying to be helpful)... I don't think she even ended up going.

So now you know what not to do.
 
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Originally posted by napoleon
What about the asking out?
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Well obviously what I did got me nowhere, so I guess if you want her, go after her and ask her out. I think your suggestion of celebrating would work well.
 
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i don't think you want to ask her out. I mean look at you you guys aren't even messing around and you are already complaning about her whinning habits... what is it that you guys say ??? Uhmm NEXT!!!
 
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Either I dont understand what we are talking about or you dont.
We didn't mention complaining.
What on earth are you talking about?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by napoleon
OK now i need another opinion. I'll ask her out but like this.
As she will pass a difficult exam Ill say-"Now we can go out and celebrate!". What do you think?
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"Congratulations, now you get to hang out with me, where are are you gonna take me out so we can celebrate?"

Don't worry too much on what her response will be, as in yes, or now, or maybe. Who cares? This answer will start changing the dynamics in your favor, as in she must pass, be good enough, cool enough in order for you to give her a chance to kick it with you. But you must not screw it up by putting too much importance and resorting to chump behavior.
 
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I like it,any more suggestions(like that one)?
 
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Question-what if she fails. How could I ask her out then?
 
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