"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Deadly_Assassin

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First of all, this is not a racist thread by any means.

Last night, while clubbing, I saw this really hot asian chick. I am talking an easy 8. She was about 5'8, size 8, cute face, really sexy looking. Dressed quite modestly, just a tank top and 3/4 jeans. But she was hanging out with these 4 other white geeky nerds ( There are geeky nerds in all races btw ). What I didn't understand is what did she find attractive in these guys? I know, I can't judge people by their cover, but I have seen this way too often. Most asian chicks seem to prefer the white geeky type guys over asian guys. Most of these chicks just don't even go for asian guys. ( I am not asian btw, I am more half indian looking, and I have chicks saying I am from Brazil/ South Africa/ Mexico/ Spain... )

I really wanted to approach her, but couldn't cos we were dancing. I am not good with approaching chicks on the dance floor. And we were dancing with our backs to each other so I didn't get any eye contact going. I have seen her a couple of times before, so will keep you posted what happens next time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Deadly_Assassin said:
First of all, this is not a racist thread by any means.

Last night, while clubbing, I saw this really hot asian chick. I am talking an easy 8. She was about 5'8, size 8, cute face, really sexy looking. Dressed quite modestly, just a tank top and 3/4 jeans. But she was hanging out with these 4 other white geeky nerds ( There are geeky nerds in all races btw ). What I didn't understand is what did she find attractive in these guys? I know, I can't judge people by their cover, but I have seen this way too often. Most asian chicks seem to prefer the white geeky type guys over asian guys. Most of these chicks just don't even go for asian guys. ( I am not asian btw, I am more half indian looking, and I have chicks saying I am from Brazil/ South Africa/ Mexico/ Spain... )

I really wanted to approach her, but couldn't cos we were dancing. I am not good with approaching chicks on the dance floor. And we were dancing with our backs to each other so I didn't get any eye contact going. I have seen her a couple of times before, so will keep you posted what happens next time.
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A 5'8 asian chick?
 
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Deadly_Assassin

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I meant her height was about 5 foot 8 inches
 
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Oh I've seen some tall Asian girls at my school. And there's a lot of Asian girls at my school. But I've seen them with just about any type of guy.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Listen.. forget all the nonsence you talking about, i.e. who cares who she with and what she likes, in fact most women dont really know what is THEIR TYPE..

all i heard is this "her back was to me on the dance floor and I was a pus.sey as.s bi.tch who was too scared just to simply turn around and tap her on the shoulder and say, hi, you are really grougeous, what is your name"

case closed...

try it next time...
 
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