"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Deadly_Assassin

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First of all, this is not a racist thread by any means.

Last night, while clubbing, I saw this really hot asian chick. I am talking an easy 8. She was about 5'8, size 8, cute face, really sexy looking. Dressed quite modestly, just a tank top and 3/4 jeans. But she was hanging out with these 4 other white geeky nerds ( There are geeky nerds in all races btw ). What I didn't understand is what did she find attractive in these guys? I know, I can't judge people by their cover, but I have seen this way too often. Most asian chicks seem to prefer the white geeky type guys over asian guys. Most of these chicks just don't even go for asian guys. ( I am not asian btw, I am more half indian looking, and I have chicks saying I am from Brazil/ South Africa/ Mexico/ Spain... )

I really wanted to approach her, but couldn't cos we were dancing. I am not good with approaching chicks on the dance floor. And we were dancing with our backs to each other so I didn't get any eye contact going. I have seen her a couple of times before, so will keep you posted what happens next time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Deadly_Assassin said:
First of all, this is not a racist thread by any means.

Last night, while clubbing, I saw this really hot asian chick. I am talking an easy 8. She was about 5'8, size 8, cute face, really sexy looking. Dressed quite modestly, just a tank top and 3/4 jeans. But she was hanging out with these 4 other white geeky nerds ( There are geeky nerds in all races btw ). What I didn't understand is what did she find attractive in these guys? I know, I can't judge people by their cover, but I have seen this way too often. Most asian chicks seem to prefer the white geeky type guys over asian guys. Most of these chicks just don't even go for asian guys. ( I am not asian btw, I am more half indian looking, and I have chicks saying I am from Brazil/ South Africa/ Mexico/ Spain... )

I really wanted to approach her, but couldn't cos we were dancing. I am not good with approaching chicks on the dance floor. And we were dancing with our backs to each other so I didn't get any eye contact going. I have seen her a couple of times before, so will keep you posted what happens next time.
A 5'8 asian chick?
 

Deadly_Assassin

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I meant her height was about 5 foot 8 inches
 

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Oh I've seen some tall Asian girls at my school. And there's a lot of Asian girls at my school. But I've seen them with just about any type of guy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Listen.. forget all the nonsence you talking about, i.e. who cares who she with and what she likes, in fact most women dont really know what is THEIR TYPE..

all i heard is this "her back was to me on the dance floor and I was a pus.sey as.s bi.tch who was too scared just to simply turn around and tap her on the shoulder and say, hi, you are really grougeous, what is your name"

case closed...

try it next time...
 
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