"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Deadly_Assassin

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First of all, this is not a racist thread by any means.

Last night, while clubbing, I saw this really hot asian chick. I am talking an easy 8. She was about 5'8, size 8, cute face, really sexy looking. Dressed quite modestly, just a tank top and 3/4 jeans. But she was hanging out with these 4 other white geeky nerds ( There are geeky nerds in all races btw ). What I didn't understand is what did she find attractive in these guys? I know, I can't judge people by their cover, but I have seen this way too often. Most asian chicks seem to prefer the white geeky type guys over asian guys. Most of these chicks just don't even go for asian guys. ( I am not asian btw, I am more half indian looking, and I have chicks saying I am from Brazil/ South Africa/ Mexico/ Spain... )

I really wanted to approach her, but couldn't cos we were dancing. I am not good with approaching chicks on the dance floor. And we were dancing with our backs to each other so I didn't get any eye contact going. I have seen her a couple of times before, so will keep you posted what happens next time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Deadly_Assassin said:
First of all, this is not a racist thread by any means.

Last night, while clubbing, I saw this really hot asian chick. I am talking an easy 8. She was about 5'8, size 8, cute face, really sexy looking. Dressed quite modestly, just a tank top and 3/4 jeans. But she was hanging out with these 4 other white geeky nerds ( There are geeky nerds in all races btw ). What I didn't understand is what did she find attractive in these guys? I know, I can't judge people by their cover, but I have seen this way too often. Most asian chicks seem to prefer the white geeky type guys over asian guys. Most of these chicks just don't even go for asian guys. ( I am not asian btw, I am more half indian looking, and I have chicks saying I am from Brazil/ South Africa/ Mexico/ Spain... )

I really wanted to approach her, but couldn't cos we were dancing. I am not good with approaching chicks on the dance floor. And we were dancing with our backs to each other so I didn't get any eye contact going. I have seen her a couple of times before, so will keep you posted what happens next time.
A 5'8 asian chick?
 

Deadly_Assassin

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I meant her height was about 5 foot 8 inches
 

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Oh I've seen some tall Asian girls at my school. And there's a lot of Asian girls at my school. But I've seen them with just about any type of guy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Listen.. forget all the nonsence you talking about, i.e. who cares who she with and what she likes, in fact most women dont really know what is THEIR TYPE..

all i heard is this "her back was to me on the dance floor and I was a pus.sey as.s bi.tch who was too scared just to simply turn around and tap her on the shoulder and say, hi, you are really grougeous, what is your name"

case closed...

try it next time...
 
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