"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what's up with all the fat women

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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latinnova

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And another problem is that if they are in shape they tend to fall off the "fit" boat after about a year or two in a relationship. Then they start wondering why your don't want to fvck them as much, and when you tell them it's because you are no longer attracted to them because they got fat, they flip the fvck out. Hey, just being honest you heffer, get back in shape and I'll get back in you. Seems like the older ladies get a divorce in their 30's, hit the gym harder then Schwarzenegger and turn into a goddess, then once they seem to lock in a man they straight up inhale everything edible around them.
 

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That was a large part of my divorce, when my wife of the time, who was in beauty pageants right before I met her, gained a lot of weight. Every single one of her female friends told her I was a giant assh0le for having any problem at all with her massive weight gain. The only one who took my side happened to be a gay guy friend she had known since childhood. He was like "look, girlfriend, you being fat is NOT what he signed up for. You're changing the deal on him."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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you do NOT want the medical costs of a fat woman, nor her fat kids. One follows the other, like night and day.
 

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Every single one of her female friends told her I was a giant assh0le for having any problem at all with her massive weight gain.
It's not like gaining weight is some uncurable disease or sickness that's beyond your control. No, it's completely under your control. It's the result of an unhealthy lifestyle. There should be 0 encouragement for it. I immediately lose all respect for any person who supports the concept of being fat.
 

latinnova

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you do NOT want the medical costs of a fat woman, nor her fat kids. One follows the other, like night and day.
True..... An overweight person is highly more likely to start to suffer from serious illness's related to their weight at an early age, and I am not going to sit there and have to deal with some lazy chick who has no self control over her eating habits, that just about makes me sick. Plus, fat chicks don't turn me on, at all. My d!ck sill be about as hard as that pasta that she over gorged on during dinner, it isn't happening.

I go to the gym an hour a day, 5 days a week, and bust my ass while I am there, and have done so for the past 20 years. I do not respect a girl who can not at least watch what they eat. It's a miracle to find one who works out and watch's their diet, who will make this part of their lifestyle vs just doing it temporarily.
 
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