"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what's up with all the fat women

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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latinnova

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And another problem is that if they are in shape they tend to fall off the "fit" boat after about a year or two in a relationship. Then they start wondering why your don't want to fvck them as much, and when you tell them it's because you are no longer attracted to them because they got fat, they flip the fvck out. Hey, just being honest you heffer, get back in shape and I'll get back in you. Seems like the older ladies get a divorce in their 30's, hit the gym harder then Schwarzenegger and turn into a goddess, then once they seem to lock in a man they straight up inhale everything edible around them.
 

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That was a large part of my divorce, when my wife of the time, who was in beauty pageants right before I met her, gained a lot of weight. Every single one of her female friends told her I was a giant assh0le for having any problem at all with her massive weight gain. The only one who took my side happened to be a gay guy friend she had known since childhood. He was like "look, girlfriend, you being fat is NOT what he signed up for. You're changing the deal on him."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you do NOT want the medical costs of a fat woman, nor her fat kids. One follows the other, like night and day.
 

Yewki

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Every single one of her female friends told her I was a giant assh0le for having any problem at all with her massive weight gain.
It's not like gaining weight is some uncurable disease or sickness that's beyond your control. No, it's completely under your control. It's the result of an unhealthy lifestyle. There should be 0 encouragement for it. I immediately lose all respect for any person who supports the concept of being fat.
 

latinnova

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you do NOT want the medical costs of a fat woman, nor her fat kids. One follows the other, like night and day.
True..... An overweight person is highly more likely to start to suffer from serious illness's related to their weight at an early age, and I am not going to sit there and have to deal with some lazy chick who has no self control over her eating habits, that just about makes me sick. Plus, fat chicks don't turn me on, at all. My d!ck sill be about as hard as that pasta that she over gorged on during dinner, it isn't happening.

I go to the gym an hour a day, 5 days a week, and bust my ass while I am there, and have done so for the past 20 years. I do not respect a girl who can not at least watch what they eat. It's a miracle to find one who works out and watch's their diet, who will make this part of their lifestyle vs just doing it temporarily.
 
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