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Mrchunglee

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Im been reading up on this subject but I have yet to understand it. When a girl likes me they seem to go crazy when they have to chase. They ask to hang out, have sex, etc. My problem is that i dont have the most free time in the world (work, school, sports). When i try to chase a female it never works, its like they automatically feel like they have higher value. Should I continue to be chased or is there a happy medium i should be following. Thanks guys
 

Jay Dee

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You've seemingly got the right attitude bro. Keeping a busy lifestyle, with ladies coming somewhere behind. Because when they go off on their own tangent as they do at times, you don't get too distracted, if at all. You shouldn't chase them, they should be chasing you, that way they feel they've earned you, which works out a lot better in the whole social dynamic.

As you're the guy, if you're interested in a chick, you should generally instigate proceedings, you are starting to chase if you instigate more than a couple of times and not get much in return, whether it's regular dates and/or sex. If you come across her path occasionally after that then be civil, but don't instigate again - she can though as you've more than shown your interest.

Make sure you're instigating regularly as it's a bit of a numbers game too, the more chicks you come across, the more of a chance you have of coming across a decent girl. I take it the chicks that are chasing you aren't that nice and/or you're looking for a relationship? If they were hot or you just wanted sex, you would be finding the time I'm sure.
 

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It just seems like a hard concept. The really hot girls seem like they want to be chase (ie. no effort to call or text) i just have to find out how i can put my self out there then be chased again
 

Lord Sidious

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That´s the problem: chasing chicks. Most of the time doesn´t work. Being chased by them it´s the right thing.

Being busy is good, but man, you should have some time to girls. I´m sure you can do it! :)


Good luck!
 
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