So here's the deal. Chick #1 i've been sorta seeing. And I think initially Chick #2 got jealous and liked me. So Chick #2 and I hooked up like a week ago, she was crazy in bed. So now Chick #2 and I still talk flirt etc. but it seems like she's reserved now and doesn't wanna be all 'crazy' like she was randomly last week. What's her deal? Chick #1 and I the one I'm sorta seeing stuff's going well with her and she has no idea of any of this. So what's w/the reservedness of chick #2 I thought she'd be all about hooking up whenever. All of our friends and Chick #2 went out and it was an ok night but only got a hug at the end of the night = lame. Advice?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What's this chick's deal????
- Thread starter godjwood
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
She's not jealous anymore