So here's the deal. Chick #1 i've been sorta seeing. And I think initially Chick #2 got jealous and liked me. So Chick #2 and I hooked up like a week ago, she was crazy in bed. So now Chick #2 and I still talk flirt etc. but it seems like she's reserved now and doesn't wanna be all 'crazy' like she was randomly last week. What's her deal? Chick #1 and I the one I'm sorta seeing stuff's going well with her and she has no idea of any of this. So what's w/the reservedness of chick #2 I thought she'd be all about hooking up whenever. All of our friends and Chick #2 went out and it was an ok night but only got a hug at the end of the night = lame. Advice?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What's this chick's deal????
- Thread starter godjwood
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
She's not jealous anymore