So here's the deal. Chick #1 i've been sorta seeing. And I think initially Chick #2 got jealous and liked me. So Chick #2 and I hooked up like a week ago, she was crazy in bed. So now Chick #2 and I still talk flirt etc. but it seems like she's reserved now and doesn't wanna be all 'crazy' like she was randomly last week. What's her deal? Chick #1 and I the one I'm sorta seeing stuff's going well with her and she has no idea of any of this. So what's w/the reservedness of chick #2 I thought she'd be all about hooking up whenever. All of our friends and Chick #2 went out and it was an ok night but only got a hug at the end of the night = lame. Advice?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What's this chick's deal????
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
She's not jealous anymore