So here's the deal. Chick #1 i've been sorta seeing. And I think initially Chick #2 got jealous and liked me. So Chick #2 and I hooked up like a week ago, she was crazy in bed. So now Chick #2 and I still talk flirt etc. but it seems like she's reserved now and doesn't wanna be all 'crazy' like she was randomly last week. What's her deal? Chick #1 and I the one I'm sorta seeing stuff's going well with her and she has no idea of any of this. So what's w/the reservedness of chick #2 I thought she'd be all about hooking up whenever. All of our friends and Chick #2 went out and it was an ok night but only got a hug at the end of the night = lame. Advice?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What's this chick's deal????
- Thread starter godjwood
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
She's not jealous anymore