"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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whats the hardest lesson you've learnt ?

zorg198

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pyros said:
When I was around 24, in other words, a few years ago, I realised that nowadays Disney dating/relationships do not exist. It doesnt exist anymore that you meet (by chance) a nice, beautiful girl, she likes you too, you go on a date, you kiss, you go on more dates, you have sex, everything goes nicely and you get married etc.

The majority of women nowadays are way too spoiled, they're selfish, egocentric, manipulative, emasculated, flakey, attention wh-ores, wh-ores, etc etc even if they look 'nice' at first sight.

This has been hard to accept.
This i learned the past year... so true in many ways!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
Hardest lesson I have learned is that everything I was told was wrong and everything I knew was in fact right. Still having trouble with that last part too.

ditto
 

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Originally Posted by GS750
Yeah...leaned that one the hard way. Never underestimate the number of orbiters she may have waiting in the wings that she can replace you with if you fvck up or things go south. Count on there being at least 3 but probably more.


Huffman said:
But that's a very stressful way to go about it right? I think it's more healthy to just ignore those guys, there's no use feeling threatened by some douches.

With them being orbiters, most aren't a real danger anyway.

OH YEAH acknowledge but ignore and to branch off this I would say LISTEN TO your gut/intuition! Younger dudes that sh*ts real man, now only if it would give me some lotto numbers!

Usually after a year they kill my interest & I don't give a fluck anymore. Orbiters can have her.
 

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pyros said:
When I was around 24, in other words, a few years ago, I realised that nowadays Disney dating/relationships do not exist. It doesnt exist anymore that you meet (by chance) a nice, beautiful girl, she likes you too, you go on a date, you kiss, you go on more dates, you have sex, everything goes nicely and you get married etc.

The majority of women nowadays are way too spoiled, they're selfish, egocentric, manipulative, emasculated, flakey, attention wh-ores, wh-ores, etc etc even if they look 'nice' at first sight.

This has been hard to accept.
I disagree, it does exist. But I don't deny the existence of the women you describe. Which is why we need to learn to be choosers and not just blindly take the first one out of desperation.
 

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Two good posts from Grewd & Pyros. One thinks Disney love exists, the other dose'nt. Who's right??

I think the majority of guys on here don't believe in Disney love. This site has taught me that Disney love dose'nt exist & I've got a lot more success not believing in Disney love
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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