"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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whats the hardest lesson you've learnt ?

zorg198

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pyros said:
When I was around 24, in other words, a few years ago, I realised that nowadays Disney dating/relationships do not exist. It doesnt exist anymore that you meet (by chance) a nice, beautiful girl, she likes you too, you go on a date, you kiss, you go on more dates, you have sex, everything goes nicely and you get married etc.

The majority of women nowadays are way too spoiled, they're selfish, egocentric, manipulative, emasculated, flakey, attention wh-ores, wh-ores, etc etc even if they look 'nice' at first sight.

This has been hard to accept.
This i learned the past year... so true in many ways!!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
Hardest lesson I have learned is that everything I was told was wrong and everything I knew was in fact right. Still having trouble with that last part too.

ditto
 

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Originally Posted by GS750
Yeah...leaned that one the hard way. Never underestimate the number of orbiters she may have waiting in the wings that she can replace you with if you fvck up or things go south. Count on there being at least 3 but probably more.


Huffman said:
But that's a very stressful way to go about it right? I think it's more healthy to just ignore those guys, there's no use feeling threatened by some douches.

With them being orbiters, most aren't a real danger anyway.

OH YEAH acknowledge but ignore and to branch off this I would say LISTEN TO your gut/intuition! Younger dudes that sh*ts real man, now only if it would give me some lotto numbers!

Usually after a year they kill my interest & I don't give a fluck anymore. Orbiters can have her.
 

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pyros said:
When I was around 24, in other words, a few years ago, I realised that nowadays Disney dating/relationships do not exist. It doesnt exist anymore that you meet (by chance) a nice, beautiful girl, she likes you too, you go on a date, you kiss, you go on more dates, you have sex, everything goes nicely and you get married etc.

The majority of women nowadays are way too spoiled, they're selfish, egocentric, manipulative, emasculated, flakey, attention wh-ores, wh-ores, etc etc even if they look 'nice' at first sight.

This has been hard to accept.
I disagree, it does exist. But I don't deny the existence of the women you describe. Which is why we need to learn to be choosers and not just blindly take the first one out of desperation.
 

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Two good posts from Grewd & Pyros. One thinks Disney love exists, the other dose'nt. Who's right??

I think the majority of guys on here don't believe in Disney love. This site has taught me that Disney love dose'nt exist & I've got a lot more success not believing in Disney love
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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