I've noticed on a lot of other forums, everyone despises taking a girl to a movie unless already in a relationship. So far, the advice I've seen here far exceeds any other forum. I was wondering what you guys think of movie dates? Are they really such a cardinal sin?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What's the general consensus on movie dates?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
EvilAgenda
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First date, no. She gotta feel attracted to you, and the odds of that happening at a dark theater r, well u know, u wouldn't swim against the current.
Consensus is, action dates make best first dates. Ice skating, dancing, anything with easy light touching.
Later dates after you two had sex, sure. Chill, relax, enjoy the movie.
Consensus is, action dates make best first dates. Ice skating, dancing, anything with easy light touching.
Later dates after you two had sex, sure. Chill, relax, enjoy the movie.
Diaforetikos
Senior Don Juan
Movie dates are the worst. People already have a hard time remembering who they even seen a particular movie with. How do you get to know someone when your not even paying attention to them.
May work for a third or fourth, but never a first.
May work for a third or fourth, but never a first.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
is shopping, count ??EvilAgenda said:
for you question, people summed it really good !
or you are more intrested in the movie than her, or you are trying to pick her up but she's intresting in the movie, or you both intrested in the movie and dont give a fvck about the date ... not cool to creat attraction
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Why not have a movie date at your place?! If I ever took a woman to an actual movie theater it would be fool around with her in the dark, in public......