I've noticed on a lot of other forums, everyone despises taking a girl to a movie unless already in a relationship. So far, the advice I've seen here far exceeds any other forum. I was wondering what you guys think of movie dates? Are they really such a cardinal sin?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What's the general consensus on movie dates?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
EvilAgenda
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First date, no. She gotta feel attracted to you, and the odds of that happening at a dark theater r, well u know, u wouldn't swim against the current.
Consensus is, action dates make best first dates. Ice skating, dancing, anything with easy light touching.
Later dates after you two had sex, sure. Chill, relax, enjoy the movie.
Consensus is, action dates make best first dates. Ice skating, dancing, anything with easy light touching.
Later dates after you two had sex, sure. Chill, relax, enjoy the movie.
Diaforetikos
Senior Don Juan
Movie dates are the worst. People already have a hard time remembering who they even seen a particular movie with. How do you get to know someone when your not even paying attention to them.
May work for a third or fourth, but never a first.
May work for a third or fourth, but never a first.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
is shopping, count ??EvilAgenda said:
for you question, people summed it really good !
or you are more intrested in the movie than her, or you are trying to pick her up but she's intresting in the movie, or you both intrested in the movie and dont give a fvck about the date ... not cool to creat attraction
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Why not have a movie date at your place?! If I ever took a woman to an actual movie theater it would be fool around with her in the dark, in public......