I've noticed on a lot of other forums, everyone despises taking a girl to a movie unless already in a relationship. So far, the advice I've seen here far exceeds any other forum. I was wondering what you guys think of movie dates? Are they really such a cardinal sin?
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
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What's the general consensus on movie dates?
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EvilAgenda
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First date, no. She gotta feel attracted to you, and the odds of that happening at a dark theater r, well u know, u wouldn't swim against the current.
Consensus is, action dates make best first dates. Ice skating, dancing, anything with easy light touching.
Later dates after you two had sex, sure. Chill, relax, enjoy the movie.
Consensus is, action dates make best first dates. Ice skating, dancing, anything with easy light touching.
Later dates after you two had sex, sure. Chill, relax, enjoy the movie.
Diaforetikos
Senior Don Juan
Movie dates are the worst. People already have a hard time remembering who they even seen a particular movie with. How do you get to know someone when your not even paying attention to them.
May work for a third or fourth, but never a first.
May work for a third or fourth, but never a first.
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
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You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
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is shopping, count ??EvilAgenda said:
for you question, people summed it really good !
or you are more intrested in the movie than her, or you are trying to pick her up but she's intresting in the movie, or you both intrested in the movie and dont give a fvck about the date ... not cool to creat attraction
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Why not have a movie date at your place?! If I ever took a woman to an actual movie theater it would be fool around with her in the dark, in public......