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What's the general consensus on movie dates?

Newton

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I've noticed on a lot of other forums, everyone despises taking a girl to a movie unless already in a relationship. So far, the advice I've seen here far exceeds any other forum. I was wondering what you guys think of movie dates? Are they really such a cardinal sin?
 

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bigneil

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Why sit awkwardly in the dark for 2 hours with someone you're trying to get to know? Because you can't think of anything better to do?
 

EvilAgenda

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First date, no. She gotta feel attracted to you, and the odds of that happening at a dark theater r, well u know, u wouldn't swim against the current.

Consensus is, action dates make best first dates. Ice skating, dancing, anything with easy light touching.

Later dates after you two had sex, sure. Chill, relax, enjoy the movie.
 

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Movie dates are the worst. People already have a hard time remembering who they even seen a particular movie with. How do you get to know someone when your not even paying attention to them.

May work for a third or fourth, but never a first.
 

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TheMale

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EvilAgenda said:
Consensus is, action dates make best first dates. Ice skating, dancing, anything with easy light touching.
is shopping, count ??


for you question, people summed it really good !

or you are more intrested in the movie than her, or you are trying to pick her up but she's intresting in the movie, or you both intrested in the movie and dont give a fvck about the date ... not cool to creat attraction
 

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Why not have a movie date at your place?! If I ever took a woman to an actual movie theater it would be fool around with her in the dark, in public......
 
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