I Want To Be a Playa
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Does anyone have any workout routines that produce the fastest and best looking results? I've tried a few, but I am having trouble here.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
No they'd probably ignore it so that corporations could continue selling us junk we wouldn't need if the news were true.6-heads lewis said:If there was one magic workout that made you 'chizled' and look amazing with quick and guaranteed results, don't you think it would have made the cover of Time by now?
Kev07 said:aside from your other muscle workouts( you DO work out more than just your chest right?!) this is what your chest day should look like
4 sets bench press 6-12 reps
3 sets incline bench 6-12 reps
3 sets decline bench 6-12 reps
2 sets dips(weirted if you can)
3 sets of some sort of pec fly
That's too much volume for average guys to handle. You don't need 5 exercises and 15 sets.aside from your other muscle workouts( you DO work out more than just your chest right?!) this is what your chest day should look like
4 sets bench press 6-12 reps
3 sets incline bench 6-12 reps
3 sets decline bench 6-12 reps
2 sets dips(weirted if you can)
3 sets of some sort of pec fly
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Kev07 said:aside from your other muscle workouts( you DO work out more than just your chest right?!) this is what your chest day should look like
4 sets bench press 6-12 reps
3 sets incline bench 6-12 reps
3 sets decline bench 6-12 reps
2 sets dips(weirted if you can)
3 sets of some sort of pec fly