"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What's the fastest way to a chizled chest?

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Does anyone have any workout routines that produce the fastest and best looking results? I've tried a few, but I am having trouble here.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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presumably you mean a combination of significant chest muscle & fairly low bodyfat?
 

6-heads lewis

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If there was one magic workout that made you 'chizled' and look amazing with quick and guaranteed results, don't you think it would have made the cover of Time by now?
 

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aside from your other muscle workouts( you DO work out more than just your chest right?!) this is what your chest day should look like

4 sets bench press 6-12 reps
3 sets incline bench 6-12 reps
3 sets decline bench 6-12 reps
2 sets dips(weirted if you can)
3 sets of some sort of pec fly
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mrRuckus

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6-heads lewis said:
If there was one magic workout that made you 'chizled' and look amazing with quick and guaranteed results, don't you think it would have made the cover of Time by now?
No they'd probably ignore it so that corporations could continue selling us junk we wouldn't need if the news were true.

Like hydrogen peroxide for $1 instead of tiny bottles of acne creme for $6.
 

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Kev07 said:
aside from your other muscle workouts( you DO work out more than just your chest right?!) this is what your chest day should look like

4 sets bench press 6-12 reps
3 sets incline bench 6-12 reps
3 sets decline bench 6-12 reps
2 sets dips(weirted if you can)
3 sets of some sort of pec fly


comedy
 

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aside from your other muscle workouts( you DO work out more than just your chest right?!) this is what your chest day should look like

4 sets bench press 6-12 reps
3 sets incline bench 6-12 reps
3 sets decline bench 6-12 reps
2 sets dips(weirted if you can)
3 sets of some sort of pec fly
That's too much volume for average guys to handle. You don't need 5 exercises and 15 sets. :) 2 exercises would do, with 2-3 sets of each.

I Want To Be a Playa: you've gotta be talking about a big chest + low bodyfat. What's the quickest way to achieve that? Build muscle in the chest (and everywhere else) and reach a low bf%.. ;)

-shaun
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kev07 said:
aside from your other muscle workouts( you DO work out more than just your chest right?!) this is what your chest day should look like

4 sets bench press 6-12 reps
3 sets incline bench 6-12 reps
3 sets decline bench 6-12 reps
2 sets dips(weirted if you can)
3 sets of some sort of pec fly

LOL wow holy shyt, does that come with a lunch break?
 

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Yeah, well I do this for a chest workout.

Flat Bench

1st set 8 reps lowest weight...around 110 lbs
2nd set 6 reps a little more wieght...maybe 120 lbs
3rd set 4 reps a little more weight..maybe 130 lbs..just add a lil more each set
4th set 3 reps
5th set 2 reps
6th set 1 rep
then a take about 20 lbs off the max and bench it for at least 4 reps..i try to go to 7 though

Then, I do incline barbell presses..35 lbs...2 sets...6-8 reps..and that's it for my chest workout. It's a pretty good work out to be honest, and I have saw some results.
 
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