I Want To Be a Playa
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Does anyone have any workout routines that produce the fastest and best looking results? I've tried a few, but I am having trouble here.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
No they'd probably ignore it so that corporations could continue selling us junk we wouldn't need if the news were true.6-heads lewis said:If there was one magic workout that made you 'chizled' and look amazing with quick and guaranteed results, don't you think it would have made the cover of Time by now?
Kev07 said:aside from your other muscle workouts( you DO work out more than just your chest right?!) this is what your chest day should look like
4 sets bench press 6-12 reps
3 sets incline bench 6-12 reps
3 sets decline bench 6-12 reps
2 sets dips(weirted if you can)
3 sets of some sort of pec fly
That's too much volume for average guys to handle. You don't need 5 exercises and 15 sets.aside from your other muscle workouts( you DO work out more than just your chest right?!) this is what your chest day should look like
4 sets bench press 6-12 reps
3 sets incline bench 6-12 reps
3 sets decline bench 6-12 reps
2 sets dips(weirted if you can)
3 sets of some sort of pec fly
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Kev07 said:aside from your other muscle workouts( you DO work out more than just your chest right?!) this is what your chest day should look like
4 sets bench press 6-12 reps
3 sets incline bench 6-12 reps
3 sets decline bench 6-12 reps
2 sets dips(weirted if you can)
3 sets of some sort of pec fly