What's the etiquette after unanswered text?

[BillyPilgrim]

OP the answer is to ask her that exact question (in the OP headline) and point her to this thread.

 

[jamesfromhouston]

A woman denying sex with you even when in intimate situations (only the two of you etc...) means one thing and one thing only: She doesn't deserve the privilege of getting any more investment from you, be it your time, money, or mental energy...

In short, by denying sex with you, she's basically wasting your and her time. And time is the most valuable commodity there is to have.

If I was you, I'd cease contact with her right after that.

It is actually only the 4th time we hung out. Does that rationale count still?

Dates 1 to 3 - we made out. 4th time - we fooled around.

Would you try pursue further or deny contact?

 

[manfrombelow]

It is actually only the 4th time we hung out. Does that rationale count still?

Dates 1 to 3 - we made out. 4th time - we fooled around.

Would you try pursue further or deny contact?

4th date without sex is already a losing game for you dude. Normally sex should happen at 3rd date at the latest. 4th date without sex means extremely low interest from her side.

 

[manfrombelow]

Don't overcomplicate things.

Do you like her?
If yes, pursue further.
If not, dump.

Pursue further?

WTF is even that, dude?

It should be sending her a few texts asking her out to gauge her interest level.

If she complies, than proceed (not "pursue") by making the next date happen, with sex as the ultimate goal.

If she rejects you twice, you drop her right then and there.

 

[Manure Spherian]

I'm not interested in this girl for long-term as she's too old (32) but she is attractive and we actually had a really good connection.

What is your intention with her then?

"wasn't sure we were looking for the same thing" as I'm assuming she wants a relationship and she is probably suspecting I'm looking for just the opposite.

Why bother if you’re not looking for the same thing?

 

[AureliusMaximus]

What do you guys do if a girl doesn't respond to your text? I'm not generally referring to women that are non-responsive on the whole, in that case I would just move on. I'm mainly talking about women who at least have a medium level interest level and have generally been responding well...but then don't answer a text in regards to meeting up.

I don't want to feel like I'm chasing or have no other options, but at the same time if she just happened to forget to answer or something I don't want to miss out on an opportunity and let time be a destroyer. I guess I'm trying to find a middle ground between pursuing and chasing and not quite sure where the happy medium is.

Any wise words of wisdom would be appreciated!

DGAF.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

What do you guys do if a girl doesn't respond to your text? I'm not generally referring to women that are non-responsive on the whole, in that case I would just move on. I'm mainly talking about women who at least have a medium level interest level and have generally been responding well...but then don't answer a text in regards to meeting up.

I don't want to feel like I'm chasing or have no other options, but at the same time if she just happened to forget to answer or something I don't want to miss out on an opportunity and let time be a destroyer. I guess I'm trying to find a middle ground between pursuing and chasing and not quite sure where the happy medium is.

Any wise words of wisdom would be appreciated!

No woman that is interested in meeting up with you would "forget" to answer. C'mon man...get real.

 

[manfrombelow]

No woman that is interested in meeting up with you would "forget" to answer. C'mon man...get real.

You realize you've just replied to a 8-year-old post?