"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What's the difference between ....
- Thread starter The_411
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
brenbaus
Senior Don Juan
brenbaus
Senior Don Juan
Originally posted by The_411
So in theory
you go from dating
to seeing someone
to girlfriend/boyfriend
etc ...?
I think seeing someone is basically the same as bf/gf. Dating is keeping your options open
Alphathree
Senior Don Juan
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My mental titles are all that matter:
- have kissed
- have ****ed
- are exclusive
- everyone else
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
brenbaus
Senior Don Juan
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Exactly.Originally posted by Alphathree
I've always thought these titles were rediculous. Let the girl come up with them.
My mental titles are all that matter:
- have kissed
- have ****ed
- are exclusive
- everyone else