"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What's the difference between ....
- Thread starter The_411
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
brenbaus
Senior Don Juan
brenbaus
Senior Don Juan
Originally posted by The_411
So in theory
you go from dating
to seeing someone
to girlfriend/boyfriend
etc ...?
I think seeing someone is basically the same as bf/gf. Dating is keeping your options open
Alphathree
Senior Don Juan
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My mental titles are all that matter:
- have kissed
- have ****ed
- are exclusive
- everyone else
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
brenbaus
Senior Don Juan
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Exactly.Originally posted by Alphathree
I've always thought these titles were rediculous. Let the girl come up with them.
My mental titles are all that matter:
- have kissed
- have ****ed
- are exclusive
- everyone else