"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The_411

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Saying you're seeing someone and you're dating someone?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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brenbaus

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To me, seeing someone seems like its more of an exclusive relationship, while dating (to me) is more like you are open to other people, and not just that one person you are with that night or whatever
 

The_411

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Okay

So in theory

you go from dating
to seeing someone
to girlfriend/boyfriend
etc ...?
 

brenbaus

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Re: Okay

Originally posted by The_411
So in theory

you go from dating
to seeing someone
to girlfriend/boyfriend
etc ...?

I think seeing someone is basically the same as bf/gf. Dating is keeping your options open
 

Alphathree

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I've always thought these titles were rediculous. Let the girl come up with them.

My mental titles are all that matter:
- have kissed
- have ****ed
- are exclusive
- everyone else
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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brenbaus

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Alphatree has a good point, let the woman make the title, this way you cant say the wrong thing when you are asked what she is to you
 

DJ_in_making

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and what's it mean to be "talking" to someone. That's like the dumbest one I've heard.
 

nishbuk

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Originally posted by Alphathree
I've always thought these titles were rediculous. Let the girl come up with them.

My mental titles are all that matter:
- have kissed
- have ****ed
- are exclusive
- everyone else
Exactly.
 
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