"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The_411

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Saying you're seeing someone and you're dating someone?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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brenbaus

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To me, seeing someone seems like its more of an exclusive relationship, while dating (to me) is more like you are open to other people, and not just that one person you are with that night or whatever
 

The_411

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Okay

So in theory

you go from dating
to seeing someone
to girlfriend/boyfriend
etc ...?
 

brenbaus

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Re: Okay

Originally posted by The_411
So in theory

you go from dating
to seeing someone
to girlfriend/boyfriend
etc ...?

I think seeing someone is basically the same as bf/gf. Dating is keeping your options open
 

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I've always thought these titles were rediculous. Let the girl come up with them.

My mental titles are all that matter:
- have kissed
- have ****ed
- are exclusive
- everyone else
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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brenbaus

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Alphatree has a good point, let the woman make the title, this way you cant say the wrong thing when you are asked what she is to you
 

DJ_in_making

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and what's it mean to be "talking" to someone. That's like the dumbest one I've heard.
 

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Originally posted by Alphathree
I've always thought these titles were rediculous. Let the girl come up with them.

My mental titles are all that matter:
- have kissed
- have ****ed
- are exclusive
- everyone else
Exactly.
 
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