"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Whats the deal with this girl?

Dole

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Met this girl at school (at the library), made plans with her twice. Both times she gave me the run around that she is busy. On second attempt of trying to make plans with her she offered to "reschedule once again". I just said "Nah thats okay see you around at school".

She knows I am in the library lots because thats where I hang out and study. Her presents at the library increased ever since I denied her. I haven't talked to her yet but she keeps looking over at me to see if I am starring at her, we have locked eye contact several times and I have always been the first one to look away. Furthermore when ever she walks into the library and I am already there sitting down she would come sit a table or two away from me, for example today she was sitting a table behind me.

What does this girl want from me? Does she really expect me to initiate contact with her first...?
I am not going to lie, she is an average girl for me and she probably sees more in me then I see in her.
What is the best thing to do here, initiate contact with her first or just keep on doing what I am doing and she will eventually talk to me or maybe she wont?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You offered to hang out twice, and she didn't say yes? Her loss. IMHO, if she's really into you, she'll make contact.
 

MisterMcGee

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Kinda had this happen to me. Yeah, it's kinda 'weird' to deal with. Go and approach her again to ask her out again, or ask her why she keeps staring at you (in a funny way).
 
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