"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Whats the deal with this girl?

Dole

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Met this girl at school (at the library), made plans with her twice. Both times she gave me the run around that she is busy. On second attempt of trying to make plans with her she offered to "reschedule once again". I just said "Nah thats okay see you around at school".

She knows I am in the library lots because thats where I hang out and study. Her presents at the library increased ever since I denied her. I haven't talked to her yet but she keeps looking over at me to see if I am starring at her, we have locked eye contact several times and I have always been the first one to look away. Furthermore when ever she walks into the library and I am already there sitting down she would come sit a table or two away from me, for example today she was sitting a table behind me.

What does this girl want from me? Does she really expect me to initiate contact with her first...?
I am not going to lie, she is an average girl for me and she probably sees more in me then I see in her.
What is the best thing to do here, initiate contact with her first or just keep on doing what I am doing and she will eventually talk to me or maybe she wont?
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You offered to hang out twice, and she didn't say yes? Her loss. IMHO, if she's really into you, she'll make contact.
 

MisterMcGee

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Kinda had this happen to me. Yeah, it's kinda 'weird' to deal with. Go and approach her again to ask her out again, or ask her why she keeps staring at you (in a funny way).
 
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