"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Whats the deal with this girl?

Dole

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Met this girl at school (at the library), made plans with her twice. Both times she gave me the run around that she is busy. On second attempt of trying to make plans with her she offered to "reschedule once again". I just said "Nah thats okay see you around at school".

She knows I am in the library lots because thats where I hang out and study. Her presents at the library increased ever since I denied her. I haven't talked to her yet but she keeps looking over at me to see if I am starring at her, we have locked eye contact several times and I have always been the first one to look away. Furthermore when ever she walks into the library and I am already there sitting down she would come sit a table or two away from me, for example today she was sitting a table behind me.

What does this girl want from me? Does she really expect me to initiate contact with her first...?
I am not going to lie, she is an average girl for me and she probably sees more in me then I see in her.
What is the best thing to do here, initiate contact with her first or just keep on doing what I am doing and she will eventually talk to me or maybe she wont?
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You offered to hang out twice, and she didn't say yes? Her loss. IMHO, if she's really into you, she'll make contact.
 

MisterMcGee

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Kinda had this happen to me. Yeah, it's kinda 'weird' to deal with. Go and approach her again to ask her out again, or ask her why she keeps staring at you (in a funny way).
 
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