“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What's the dating scene like in Seattle

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I'd say I have a 75% chance of being relocated up there for a new job. Are there a lot of Asian women up there? Is the cost of living that bad especially compared to Austin, Tx and Nashville, Tn(They are not cheap cities btw)
 

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I'd say I have a 75% chance of being relocated up there for a new job. Are there a lot of Asian women up there? Is the cost of living that bad especially compared to Austin, Tx and Nashville, Tn(They are not cheap cities btw)
Id say cost of living in seattle is more from what i hear! People say it's terrible for dating, BUT i think if you're sniping asians it might be better since there are a lot of them there.
 

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Seattle has a bad reputation for its dating environment. A lot of Aspie techs on the male side and a lot of SJW/careerist/feminists. Think San Francisco but with gloomier weather making people even more anti-social.

Swipe apps are big there because of poor social skills.
 

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I hated that rainy city. Lots of great skiing (sorry snowboarding) so do that a lot or learn. Chicks O-Plenty..
 

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I'd say I have a 75% chance of being relocated up there for a new job. Are there a lot of Asian women up there? Is the cost of living that bad especially compared to Austin, Tx and Nashville, Tn(They are not cheap cities btw)
Seattle had turned into a total sh!thole in the past two years. Bums everywhere and not safe. Cost of living is high here but at least the state has no income tax. Austin is marginally cheaper I think.

The women are ok. There are a lot of cuties but also a lot of purple hair and trannies. the locals aren't known for being very friendly. But yes there are a lot of Asian women here. Fat women are also rare.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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lots of new money in Seattle. most likely that nice job is not going to put you into a money position in that location.

lots of outdoor activity, lots and lots of rain.

lots of Asian (lots of second-generation Asian, and that's different), big Russian communities.

Blue, very very Blue in culture.
 

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It's oversaturated with men - and that's relative to the USA as a whole, which is overloaded with sausages.
 

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Left leaning city but there are some small rural towns around that are more conservative. It is going to be what you make it...

The cost of living in Nashville, TN is -29.9% lower than in Seattle, WA. You would have to earn a salary of $42,083 to maintain your current standard of living. Employers in Nashville, TN typically pay -15.0% less than employers in Seattle, WA.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Left leaning city but there are some small rural towns around that are more conservative. It is going to be what you make it...

The cost of living in Nashville, TN is -29.9% lower than in Seattle, WA. You would have to earn a salary of $42,083 to maintain your current standard of living. Employers in Nashville, TN typically pay -15.0% less than employers in Seattle, WA.
Nashville pay is **** lol
 

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Left leaning city but there are some small rural towns around that are more conservative. It is going to be what you make it...

The cost of living in Nashville, TN is -29.9% lower than in Seattle, WA. You would have to earn a salary of $42,083 to maintain your current standard of living. Employers in Nashville, TN typically pay -15.0% less than employers in Seattle, WA.
Seattle on less than 100k is poverty. 1.5 hours away from the city; ok for 50k.
 

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I would think the women in Seattle are much better looking. In better shape and such. Why is it women out west are in better shape? I mean like AZ, CO, CA, OR, WA? Is it because of all the hills they hike and do more bike riding?
 

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I would think the women in Seattle are much better looking. In better shape and such. Why is it women out west are in better shape? I mean like AZ, CO, CA, OR, WA? Is it because of all the hills they hike and do more bike riding?
Seattle is cold and wet, making it easy to hide fat. Women are in better shape in warmer climates where you're forced to wear skimpy clothing in the summertime. Colorado is the exception, but still it's a dry/sunny place that allows for doing outdoor stuff in the mountains year round, so the girls are in decent shape although Dash can chime in more. Northern California to the Canadian border is cold, wet, and also beautiful which attracts environmental hippie types.

tl;dr - it rains less out west so more sunshine to do stuff outside. But, you want warm weather in addition to the sunshine to bring out the hotbodies.
 

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Seattle is cold and wet, making it easy to hide fat. Women are in better shape in warmer climates where you're forced to wear skimpy clothing in the summertime. Colorado is the exception, but still it's a dry/sunny place that allows for doing outdoor stuff in the mountains year round, so the girls are in decent shape although Dash can chime in more. Northern California to the Canadian border is cold, wet, and also beautiful which attracts environmental hippie types.

tl;dr - it rains less out west so more sunshine to do stuff outside. But, you want warm weather in addition to the sunshine to bring out the hotbodies.
Here in Florida and many places in the south the women are obese compared to NYC for example.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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It's crazy, everyone says the smaller cities and 'burbs suck for dating (which they do).

Then, when someone asks about a major metro, the answer is exactly the same: it sucks.:lol:
The Red Pill and manosphere folk equate pessimism with intelligence
 

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It's crazy, everyone says the smaller cities and 'burbs suck for dating (which they do).

Then, when someone asks about a major metro, the answer is exactly the same: it sucks.:lol:
You're confusing things in your post.

Suburbs are not always separate things from major metros. Often times, suburbs are a part of major metros. Being in a suburb in a major metro isn't as good in most cases as being in the principal city of that major metro. The experience in the suburb will be worse and you'll perceive the major metro as shiit simply because you chose to live in the wrong neighborhood. If there are suburban environments without a major city nearby (these are often smaller cities of around 50-150k), that's a different experience.

A lot of one's success in dating in an area comes down to their social network. I've seen guys in metro areas of 300,000 have an easier time with dating than guys in metro areas of 5 million + simply due to having a stronger social network.

Smaller areas (less than 150k population) tend to suffer from a lack of choices. If you're some guy who finds himself single after the age of 25 and you're in a smaller area, you likely need to move to a bigger area if you are able to do that.

The middle sized metros (150-600/700k) are often the best bet for dating. They are big enough that you'll have some choice but small enough that you won't run into the problems of the major metros. In the smaller areas, the lack of choice is killer. In the areas with 1 million + metro population, the competition is fierce and the women are ultra demanding.
 

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You're confusing things in your post.

Suburbs are not always separate things from major metros. Often times, suburbs are a part of major metros. Being in a suburb in a major metro isn't as good in most cases as being in the principal city of that major metro. The experience in the suburb will be worse and you'll perceive the major metro as shiit simply because you chose to live in the wrong neighborhood. If there are suburban environments without a major city nearby (these are often smaller cities of around 50-150k), that's a different experience.

A lot of one's success in dating in an area comes down to their social network. I've seen guys in metro areas of 300,000 have an easier time with dating than guys in metro areas of 5 million + simply due to having a stronger social network.

Smaller areas (less than 150k population) tend to suffer from a lack of choices. If you're some guy who finds himself single after the age of 25 and you're in a smaller area, you likely need to move to a bigger area if you are able to do that.

The middle sized metros (150-600/700k) are often the best bet for dating. They are big enough that you'll have some choice but small enough that you won't run into the problems of the major metros. In the smaller areas, the lack of choice is killer. In the areas with 1 million + metro population, the competition is fierce and the women are ultra demanding.
it's more difficult to be in the 5% in a major metro than in a middle-sized one.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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