"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What's the big deal about Bachelor TV show?

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I am curious about the TV show , the Bachelor.
Why are those women compete against each other fiercely just to date the guy?

What's the big deal about dating the bachelor?

Are these women for real? They look like actresses to me. They also look like models.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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picard said:
I am curious about the TV show , the Bachelor.
Why are those women compete against each other fiercely just to date the guy?

What's the big deal about dating the bachelor?

Are these women for real? They look like actresses to me. They also look like models.
Women's primary reason for going on television show such is this is to get exposure, its a stepping stone for them to get discovered and hopefully make it in Hollywood. What better way to get attention then to appear on television in front of millions!??

Majority of what you see in those so called "reality shows" is contrived and scripted.

The bachleor is supposed to be a so called "big catch" that woman go after. They often select a good looking dude with money. However the joke on those women is the fact that the bachelor almost never ends up marrying any of the women and probably just fvcks a whole lot of them and leaves. You can't blame the guy after all, I mean the show is like a prostitution service for the bachleor by getting him some good looking pvssy to pick and choose from across the country.

In essence the tv show the Bachelor is like Porn for women.
 

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I agree, they are contrived and scripted to an extent, but I would be willing to bet that due to the nature of women that they DO indeed get caught up in the competitive aspect of it and probably do develop feelings for the guy for thsi fact alone.

I was watching one of those goofy chick shows one night "The City" (dont ask me why) and it is blatantly obvious that there are producers or SOMEONE telling members of the cast that other members are talking sh!t about them behind their back just to stir up controversy.
 

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Funny story--

Remember the original Bachelor, Ryan Sutter? My dad is the chief at the fire dept where he works. Has nothing but good things to say about him; I guess he's a super stand-up guy. He's still married to that chick who 'won' on the original show. They have 2 or 3 kids. The guy really doesnt need to work as a firefighter, I guess he makes a ton modeling and doing public appearances and what not.

I think that show is a great case example of competition anxiety. A lot of it is contrived, for sure, but you get a look at how cutthroat competing women can be.

On a side note, 'the Bachelorette' cast is comprised of some of the biggest tools to walk the earth. What self-respecting Man would go on a prime-time t.v. show and compete for ONE woman?! Never compete; let them choose you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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where does the bachelor get the money to marry the girl? is he a millionaire before sign up to the show?
 

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"What's the big deal about Bachelor TV show?"

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Let me break it down into three easily understandable words: RATINGS and REVENUE
Uh all you did was repeat the question.
 

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how do I get to become the bachelor on the show? What kind of sh*t do I have to make up to get on the show?

Does the show make up false history for the bachelor?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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