"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What's the big deal about Bachelor TV show?

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I am curious about the TV show , the Bachelor.
Why are those women compete against each other fiercely just to date the guy?

What's the big deal about dating the bachelor?

Are these women for real? They look like actresses to me. They also look like models.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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picard said:
I am curious about the TV show , the Bachelor.
Why are those women compete against each other fiercely just to date the guy?

What's the big deal about dating the bachelor?

Are these women for real? They look like actresses to me. They also look like models.
Women's primary reason for going on television show such is this is to get exposure, its a stepping stone for them to get discovered and hopefully make it in Hollywood. What better way to get attention then to appear on television in front of millions!??

Majority of what you see in those so called "reality shows" is contrived and scripted.

The bachleor is supposed to be a so called "big catch" that woman go after. They often select a good looking dude with money. However the joke on those women is the fact that the bachelor almost never ends up marrying any of the women and probably just fvcks a whole lot of them and leaves. You can't blame the guy after all, I mean the show is like a prostitution service for the bachleor by getting him some good looking pvssy to pick and choose from across the country.

In essence the tv show the Bachelor is like Porn for women.
 

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I agree, they are contrived and scripted to an extent, but I would be willing to bet that due to the nature of women that they DO indeed get caught up in the competitive aspect of it and probably do develop feelings for the guy for thsi fact alone.

I was watching one of those goofy chick shows one night "The City" (dont ask me why) and it is blatantly obvious that there are producers or SOMEONE telling members of the cast that other members are talking sh!t about them behind their back just to stir up controversy.
 

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Funny story--

Remember the original Bachelor, Ryan Sutter? My dad is the chief at the fire dept where he works. Has nothing but good things to say about him; I guess he's a super stand-up guy. He's still married to that chick who 'won' on the original show. They have 2 or 3 kids. The guy really doesnt need to work as a firefighter, I guess he makes a ton modeling and doing public appearances and what not.

I think that show is a great case example of competition anxiety. A lot of it is contrived, for sure, but you get a look at how cutthroat competing women can be.

On a side note, 'the Bachelorette' cast is comprised of some of the biggest tools to walk the earth. What self-respecting Man would go on a prime-time t.v. show and compete for ONE woman?! Never compete; let them choose you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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where does the bachelor get the money to marry the girl? is he a millionaire before sign up to the show?
 

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"What's the big deal about Bachelor TV show?"

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Let me break it down into three easily understandable words: RATINGS and REVENUE
Uh all you did was repeat the question.
 

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t & p are cartoon characters on south park.
 

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how do I get to become the bachelor on the show? What kind of sh*t do I have to make up to get on the show?

Does the show make up false history for the bachelor?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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